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When Shift Happens Podcast - Episode 28: Former Model: From the Sins of Social Media to the Promise of Web 3.0
Episode Summary In this episode, host Kevin engages in an insightful conversation with Vanessa Ho, a former model turned tech innovator at SoCol. Vanessa shares her personal journey navigating the challenges of social media and its effects on mental health, while discussing the transformative potential of Web 3.0 for content creators. The discussion highlights the shift from traditional social media dynamics to a decentralized approach where creators can take ownership of their digital assets and communities.
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Key Themes & Topics
- Vanessa's Journey and Key Turning Points
- Early Influences: Vanessa’s modeling competition at age 15 sparked her initial entry into entertainment and media.
- Entrepreneurial Spirit: She started a sustainable fashion business in university that ultimately failed, yet provided valuable lessons for her subsequent ventures.
- Reluctant Influencer: Vanessa’s journey into social media began unintentionally; she initially disliked it but found herself documenting her life and career.
- Impact of Social Media on Mental Health
- Envy and Self-Doubt: Vanessa discusses the toxic aspects of social media where comparisons can lead to feelings of inadequacy.
- Managing Negative Comments: She emphasizes the importance of self-validation over seeking external approval, especially in the face of criticism.
- Awareness: Acknowledging the designed nature of social media that invokes feelings of envy, Vanessa stresses the importance of maintaining perspective.
- Content Creation Landscape
- Monetization Challenges: Vanessa shares insights about the realities of influencer income, which can be unpredictable and tied to broader economic conditions.
- Micro vs. Macro Influencers: Highlights the effectiveness of micro and nano influencers in terms of audience engagement and conversion rates.
- Transition to Web 3.0
- Ownership and Control: In Web 3.0, creators can own their digital assets and build communities without the constraints of traditional social media algorithms.
- Community Engagement: Discusses how Web 3.0 enables more interactive and meaningful relationships between creators and their audiences through decentralized ownership models.
- Sokol's Role: Vanessa explains how SoCol empowers creators to establish gated communities and monetize through NFTs, offering personalized support and strategy.
- Future of Social Media
- Accessibility of Web 3.0: Emphasizes the need for more user-friendly tools and education to facilitate the transition from Web 2.0 to Web 3.0.
- Potential of NFTs: Discusses the importance of providing real value through NFTs beyond speculative investments.
- Personal Insights and Advice
- Building a Support Network: Vanessa stresses the importance of having a diverse support system, mixing friends from various backgrounds to maintain balance.
- Advice on Influence: Encourages listeners to recognize their own influence, regardless of their platform size, and to use it positively to inspire others.
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Key Takeaways
- Empowerment through Ownership: Web 3.0 offers creators a chance to regain control over their content and communities, fostering more meaningful interactions.
- Navigating Mental Health: It is crucial for content creators to be aware of the mental health implications associated with social media and to practice self-validation.
- Community Building: The future of social media lies in democratizing engagement, allowing audiences more influence and authorship in the creator economy.
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Conclusion Vanessa Ho’s story illuminates the potential for growth and change within digital spaces, particularly as the industry shifts towards a more decentralized model with Web 3.0. This episode serves as a reminder for creators to focus on authenticity, community engagement, and mental well-being as they navigate the ever-evolving landscape of social media.
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Follow Vanessa
- Instagram: [@vaness.h](https://www.instagram.com/vaness.h)
- Twitter: [@VHMQ_](https://twitter.com/VHMQ_)
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Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:28You're not always like the top girl. move into entertainment and media. In Instagram, for example, it's essentially two things, envy and lust. You're just never good enough. No matter how hard you try, somebody else out there is posting something that you're envious about. What are the downsides of having a substantial online following? Wow, that's a really good question. I think the conversion rate for nano and micro influencers are really high, even much bigger than, say, celebrities. An investor friend tells me He invests in consumers, apps and social media projects. If they tick one of the boxes of the seven sins, it affects the way I think and my beliefs and my value system just because of all these influences from online.
1:15Our guest today is Vanessa. You're the head of business development and communication at Sokol, a Web3 social platform that enables creators, brands and communities to collaborate and grow together with the power of Web3 and NFTs. You're also a content creator and host with a substantial online following. In this episode, we'll talk about building a personal brand in the web toward how Web3 changes the game for content creators and mental health for content creators. Vanessa, welcome. Hi, Kevin. Thanks for having me. I'm Vanessa and I'm based in Singapore and I'm so excited to talk today. Awesome.
1:53We're very excited too. So why don't we start with some context about your background? What are the key turning points in your life that define who you are today? Well, I think one of the most important and crucial turning points goes all the way back when I was 15. That was a secondary fall here in school. And I joined a modeling competition that I saw an advertisement on in the newspaper. And back then, I knew nothing about fashion. I wore glasses, even made a fashion four-par during the audition itself, which was embarrassing. but I think that first move into entertainment and media gave me the courage to take both moves afterwards and just give everything a shot and not overthink the process and I think this ballsy nature really was harnessed from the experience onwards and moving forward when I moved on to join web3 by dropping an offer letter from management starting firm I think it was the same ethos of just, you know, going and doing and just taking the courage to take, you know, the alternative paths.
2:56I think the second turning point that was really important was when I started a fashion startup in the first year of university. It failed, but the intention was to do circular economy for sustainable fashion, like renting winter wear or your daily clothes to reduce fashion wastage. That startup eventually failed during COVID and I never continued to revive it afterwards. But that helped me enter the startup and the entrepreneurship space, which makes joining a small startup like Soko right now less daunting. And eventually I moved on to help other founders raise funds through my angel network that I run.
3:36Awesome. So how did you start this influencer journey? Well, it was entirely unintentional. Honestly, I can even say I hated social media back in school and I was the last few among my peers to create Instagram. Back when everybody was posting selfies already, I didn't like that at all. But I had to doing the modern competition that I told you about before to garner some votes before the finals. So starting Instagram was not by choice at all. And I just continued to post my student life as well as my media career. I documented all the commercials and hosting gigs and DJ gigs that I did. And people kind of liked it.
4:18And I just treated my Instagram page as a vlog for my experiences. So you're DJ too? Can you tell us a bit more about that? Oh, yeah. So funny enough, I think in 2017, if I'm not wrong, I joined a radio DJ competition to think about going into media full time and joining as a radio DJ. That didn't work out too well. I made it to top 10, failed. Then eventually I got an offer from a DJ agency, like a club DJ, music DJ, spinning records and music. I signed on with the agency. They coached me. My music background with instruments helped a lot. And now I DJ for fun, I guess. I think at one point in time, I was doing it like three times or two times a week, which was pretty serious.
5:05But now I don't have the energy to wake up at 8 a.m. and do club gigs anymore. So I still spin for corporates and festivals once in a while. And I really love it like a hobby. Awesome. Awesome. A very similar journey, actually. So you're posting, you say you don't really like this social media stuff, but you have to do it for some reason that you talked about. And you start to post regularly stuff about yourself. Is there a moment where there is a tipping point, for example, for people, especially on YouTube, COVID was a big tipping point. How did it work out for you? Is it just like consistency that helped you build like a substantial following or there's a moment where things accelerate.
5:49I like how you mentioned Tipping Point, like the book that I really like as well. I think for me, it was perhaps in 2018 when I continue on my modeling fashion career by participating in more pageants and competitions and doing more and more commercials. I think it was more like social media following came as a consequence of me just documenting my career in media which I don't do as actively anymore. But back then, I was pretty active in hosting and modeling for quite a lot of gigs. And I think people wanted to see more of my work as well. I think there wasn't really a significant moment where I was like scouted or I was cast in a big show.
6:32But I think the moment I realized that I should start taking this a bit seriously and use this as an opportunity to further my influence and voice was when I realized people wanted to pay for me to share about something. And I was thinking like, why would you do that? Like, I am like a kid who is just posting random photos, probably low resolution at this point in time about my life. But I think when the advertisers started coming in, that's when I really started taking my platform more seriously. When you say platform, what do you mean? It started predominantly on Instagram. And then right now I'm pretty active on LinkedIn as well for more like business articles and posts that I like to share.
7:14And Twitter, of course, to keep up with Web3 News. And right now I'm trying to grow Xiaohongshu, which is the Chinese social media app. It's quite new. It's so challenging. I have to translate all my captions into Chinese, which is like the hardest thing to do. And TikTok as well for the younger audience. Yeah, so I want to ask basically, how do you manage all these social media platforms? Because just one or two is already a lot of work. It's true. How do you make your choices and how do you manage? Or you just say, listen, I'm just going to go with these two or three which work the best now and then I'll see or do you have like a specific strategy on what you should create your content on based on as you said for example web 3 or or what you target in the future I think I started with spending a lot of time on Instagram first it was just very intuitive because that's where I started my social media journey as well I didn't really understand TikTok I don't think I still understand it now so I do it for fun And sometimes I even outsource my video editing because you have to scale your time, right?
8:17I spent a lot of time on LinkedIn ever since about two years ago because I realized that personal branding in the business space really takes a long time to build. And I know that for me, I'm not going to be a full-time content creator. I don't think it will satisfy this really full, high energy part of me that is always finding something to do. So I knew that I was going to go into business and I started spending a lot of time on LinkedIn ever since I started the Injure Investment Network called NUS Alumni Ventures. Twitter only came about ever since I started full-time at Sokol so that I can really stay in touch with my Web3 friends, meet new people and also show myself as a woman in Web3.
9:00So you're growing, let's say, Instagram, pretty focused there, pretty focused on LinkedIn. What do you do when you are big on a platform that consumes already all your time, but then you have a new platform such as TikTok or this Chinese application that I don't know the name of? Because I'm probably too old or too stupid to know. No, you're not too old. How do you approach that basically, you know? And how do you stay relevant? I prioritize based on the ROI I'll get out of the platform. I think I am someone who's pretty results oriented. I don't just do things for fun. Like time is really like the most scarce resource that you have.
9:47So I think, okay, what's the output that I get out of this? For Instagram, the obvious thing is it's my main platform. It's my bread and butter at some point in time before I graduated. So I really have to keep up my Instagram and spend majority of my time on it because that was the reason why I could be financially independent when I was still in school. It paid off my school fees and everything else along with it as well. And then LinkedIn was really with the objective of meeting and networking with more business audience that I believe would give me some output in the future, whatever job I do, right?
10:23Whether it was consulting, web 3, banking, finance, it doesn't matter. I believe that there's value with the crowd over there. So that was like the second platform that I prioritized out of time. And the last bit of time I spent is on Twitter. I don't really enjoy keeping out all the shit posts and stuff. It's fun. It's like, you know, more lighthearted, more casual than Instagram, which is very polished. But I enjoy like, you know, seeing what my friends are up to and all these new news and, you know, sometimes getting some alpha from Twitter as well. So I feel like, okay, at least I'm ahead of the curve if I'm still staying relevant on Twitter.
10:58so that's how I prioritize do you not feel like you're wasting a lot of time especially on twitter I mean on all these platforms basically uh because for example twitter is I mean it's the same like you spend a lot of time on there you're like oh maybe the alpha or you will get the information about I don't know celsius bank run or ftx bank run or banks bank run before anyone but there is so much shit and then so you have to create content which takes a lot of time publish everything then you have a normal job and then you have to go through this sea of shit posts and online shit like how do you approach that to make sure that you don't waste too much time which we all do yeah I actually um contrary to what most people think I don't spend that many hours reading a content I read enough to know what is trending or to know what people are talking about just so that it's conversation starters as well when I meet people at events.
11:52But I really don't spend too much time. I rather spend the time creating content, writing articles, taking photos, editing my videos, or just meeting new people or recording podcasts with you like today. So I don't spend too much time on that because I know that more than a certain amount, it's just like binging. It's like binge watching Netflix, which I don't ever do. I think it also came out from a habit where when I grew up, I watched absolutely zero TV shows. And I think that's how I have so much time to do all my modeling gigs after work, events, DJing, learn all these like random skill sets because I spend no time watching shows.
12:28If you ask me about Game of Thrones or any popular TV show, I have no idea what you're talking about. Yeah, it's very funny because I'm the exact same and I spent my life first, like I DJed for five years and I was just nerding on my DJ that's amazing all time like all the time people were like oh did you watch this thing I was like no I'm just DJing like all the time and and then the next thing was crypto I've been nerding on this crypto thing like for five years and I'm like I don't have time to watch these shows and and I'm the stupid one at the table who don't never understand anything about the the shows um so do you see other influencers as um competition wow that's a really good question i think if you ask me like maybe about two years ago i would think maybe yes um because it's advertisers dollars that we're trying to get right there's x amount of budget you want to be the most relevant person uh and you fit the brand image and people who are very similar to you say i post a lot of fitness content other fitness kols are kind of like competing for the same share of money but now i don't care um i believe everybody has their own style.
13:41People are looking for different image. Every advertiser is looking for a different person, a different spokesperson for their product. And even now, so it's not just that I don't care, but a huge part of my time at Sokol is helping creators get educated about Web3 and helping them grow their Twitter, get into Web3, launch their NFTs. I spend a lot of time helping a lot of other influencers think about their own social media, their own business, and even maybe writing social media blueprints and social media copies for them. So I think it's funny how tables have turned and I treat it like competition now as partners that I can work with so that everybody can grow together.
14:20I think it's Naval who says you don't have competition if you're authentic and if you're yourself. So basically everybody can build their own niche online and build their own following and do great things from there. What are the downsides of having substantial online following? Well, I can't say there are many downsides because I am pretty extroverted. I like to meet new people, talk to new people online as well. But sometimes I do get a bit shy in public when I'm spending an intimate time with my friends or my partner and I want to have my own space and privacy. So I don't really enjoy a bit of intrusion at moments like that.
15:05But I can't really complain about it. It comes as a package, right? And I think it'll be very entitled of me to say I want the good parts of it without losing a bit of privacy. You talked about kind of financial freedom when you were at university, thanks to these online gigs and gigs with brands. How hard is this monetization part? What's the real game there? Because I have a bunch of friends who have a lot of followers, like millions of followers, and they tell me it's really tough because you have these deals where they would take you for a couple of months through promo codes or things like that.
15:45Also, they will pay you. But then at some point, they look at pure sales, and then they will change and change and change. And it's very difficult. There's a lot of ups and downs, and it's kind of like a freelance gig or game or like if you're a consultant, you know, you have gigs sometimes, sometimes not. And at the end of the day, it's never really safe so you can make good money, but you have, so what's your experience with that? Well, monetization as an influencer is more positive than negative. The good thing is in Singapore, I think KOLs are played pretty decently. I think a lot of attention is spent on social media compared to say traditional free-to-air television.
16:25And that's why all the money goes downstream and trickles to influencers. But I would say I agree with you on the downside, right? Some of the things include like COVID, right? A lot of companies cut costs and the first to get cut is always marketing budget. And it trickles downstream where we get less campaigns as well. And if advertisers were to spend, they were spent on elsewhere. That's cheaper. For example, Facebook ads, Google ads, that has bigger numbers as well. potentially. The other downside is that I think the unstable income is also attributed that I'm not always the eight girl of the season, right?
17:02It's very variable. I think at peak, that was my peak was probably maybe a few years ago. Sometimes I come back and become a bit more popular. I think in every few months, there'll be like this set of like popular girls that people always pick. And when the engagement is there, that's where advertisers put money in as well. So you're not always like the top girl. Even if you have 100 ,000 followers or a million followers, you're not always everyone's favorite at the same time.
17:30What's the level of influence you think you need to have to have some real leverage over brands? Because I feel like there is micro-influencers and you have influencers and then you have the really big, big ones and that brands most of the time do have the leverage because they have the money. So what's the kind of size that you think you need to reach to really build the leverage? Or is it even possible to have leverage with brands or you need to build your own brand and not care anymore about all these external brands to actually have full leverage and control over how much you can make and how enjoyable the process is?
18:08That's a really good question. I would like to debate some points that you mentioned about size. I don't think size is the biggest factor, even though it's one of the first few things that people look out for. So on the side of the SoCo, I also advise and help come out with strategies for this media tech company called Party Post, which is like a micro nano influencer app for campaigns. And what we see is that the conversion rate for nano and micro influencers are really high, even much bigger than say celebrities or macro KOLs. But I think what is very defensible, that brands will want you for as a KOL is your credibility.
18:49So recently, I think most of the advertisers have been finding KOLs who have a professional career or own businesses. I think these profiles are really hard to find. Or say a mom with certain issues or an influencer with very specific skin conditions or health issues, where if you promote something, I think this credibility is something that money can buy. if you are just posting a very vanilla fitness fashion content that anybody else can do without sharing a personal story that makes people trust you, I think you're just going to be like everybody else. But if you can build this credibility and trust among your audience in something that you're actually doing in the real life, I think that is when brands find that you're indispensable.
19:32If you look at the evolution of social media landscape and how easy it was to build the following and maybe it became a bit more difficult because algorithm change, you know, when there's a new platform, obviously they're going to favor the influencers because that's what's going to make the platform grow. But then at some point they want to make money. So you can see, for example, on Instagram now, very difficult to build the following without paying for boosts and all that stuff. so how hard is the social media game the web 2 social media game today for creators and then we'll move on to web 3 to understand what's the difference you know i think it is really challenging because every platform has its own algorithm and things that work and this algorithm changes so fast as well i think um previously if you post it um a lot of skin maybe long captions your content might work right now maybe it's blocked to filter out or the algorithm changes or you need to use trendy audio um it's really quite complex to understand and that's why people always look for marketeers and agencies to help them in their social media journey I think what I'm excited about is to try new platforms sometimes when it gets a bit too overwhelming in one platform I want to see how other platforms does I think the next thing I want to try is this exciting new platform called Soundit which is a really big new social media platform in France right now as well as Be Real where the algorithm is I think more predictable at the start and maybe if you establish an audience there early, you don't have to risk losing followers or plateauing at the current social media platform.
21:23I don't exactly have a strategy of how to navigate this. If not, I would have probably a million or two million followers by now. But I must say, I think as long as we are actively using the platform that we're in, we talk to people, fellow creators, share ideas, I think we'll always be at the top of the game. Let's talk about Web3. Let's go. So why should content creators and influencers care about web3 especially in in relationship to what you're doing today on youtube instagram tiktok like how why because you were working for so call and we'll talk about that very shortly why is it so important and what's possible with web3 for influencers and content creators i think back to the previous question that you asked me um one of the problems with web2 social media as much as they're great and that's how I built my career is really that you're at the mercy of the social media algorithm.
22:24That's how you determine how engaged your fans are, how much your content reach people and how well you do. And sometimes you might even get your content or your account accidentally taken down because it has been reported by the wrong person or the algorithm detected something different. In Web3, you own the community and by owning it, It's a fully decentralized community or profile account in content that you post. So you have full ownership and control of what happens to it. And I think that is a good complementary to the Web2 social media. I think with Web2 also, the culture is very two-way with the creators and the fans.
23:01In Web2 world, you are just feeding content as an influencer and people can just like and DM you and that's it, right? It's very superficial. But in Web3, I think there's already a culture where people are more, where people are just more democratic in the sense where everybody gets a certain voice in a DAO, right, for example. And there's more two-way interaction. For example, NFT holders get to vote for certain decisions and get to kickstart community activities on behalf of the creators themselves. I think that's really exciting because with this two-way interaction, it's more fun, more meaningful, and I think it's a better experience altogether.
23:38So what I see is that Web2E social media isn't a replacement of your existing Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, but it's more of a good complementary tool. How do we transition from one to the other? What do you think will happen? Is it new platforms that will take over? Is it Instagram that's going to do some NFT stuff, which I think they just recently just ditched the idea, you know? So how do you think this transition is going to happen? Well, I think people need to see value in it in the first place, right? I think a lot of, for example, NFTs right now are merely PFPs with barely any value besides speculative investment.
24:20I think if more projects provide real value, like in real life utility NFTs or say doing education for the masses, I think if there's a lot of value to be seen in Web3 and people can see how it relates back to their business, their existing Web2 business, I think that is where people will start moving to Web3. I think that's the first criteria for this to happen. I think the second is, I think a lot of Web3 offerings right now are way too inaccessible. The reason why I could learn really fast was because of my boss, Irene, who guided me through the way and also gave me an environment where I could learn about Web3 and NFTs really fast.
25:01But I can imagine this is so much more challenging for many other creators who don't have the environment or their support system to teach them about, you know, as simple as creating a wallet or minting an NFT. It's weird because it's weird and complicated, definitely. Exactly. It's just, you know, online somewhere on what chain, like, you know, people don't understand that, right? So I think they need to have toolkits that can embed this whole blockchain technology underneath something that is very easy and intuitive for people to use. And I think that is where people will truly adopt Web3 technology and make the full use of it.
25:39It's like how we don't have to learn HTML or JavaScript to enjoy the perks of web browsers. So what is Sokol? Sokol is a community management platform and we help creators and brands. And by creators, we mean like influencers, musicians, artists, even fitness instructors themselves to engage with their audience more meaningfully through gated communities. And we get this through NFT ownership. Can you give an example of, I'm an influencer or I'm a fitness influencer or whatever. I'm interested by this web three word. I come to so-called, what happens? What's the process and what do you guys do and what do you not do?
26:27Let me give. And why is it beneficial for me? I think the best way is for you, Kevin, you have quite a lot of followers from your podcast and online as well. So say you have hypothetically 100 ,000 Spotify subscribers and maybe 100 ,000 Instagram followers as well, or YouTube or whichever channel that you use. These are like your average followers who keep up with your content maybe time to time, But you can't really identify who are your super fans who perhaps even set a notification to listen to your new episodes or even listen to every episode end to end, want to meet you in person, get to know your story and learn from you.
27:08And you can identify this, you know, super fans or super followers, maybe just the top 10 % of them, right? on SoCo, where you can create a community which is decentralized and fully owned by you. And you can release NFTs, which are like a signifier for who are your super fans who are willing to pay to get more benefits from you. And we call them premium collectibles on our platform. So it's more friendly, like, you know, holding a membership pass in the Web2 world. So with the NFTs that they own, they can access benefits that you decide. And you can decide on utilities that make sense for you.
27:42For example, the NFT holders get extra 10-15 minutes of BTS footage from your videos or your podcast episodes. And they're curious to learn more about it. Or they get a monthly call or AMA with you to ask you any questions about you instead of your guests. You get to decide on all these kind of utility that makes sense and gives value to the community members, but also benefit you in your current work. Okay, so I can come here and I subscribe to the platform and I can, you help me release my NFT collection. Exactly. And you help me frame and understand how this is beneficial for me and for the people who follow me.
28:27Exactly. At this point, we work with everybody on really like a one-to-one basis. It's not the most scalable thing, but we believe it's important to sit down with somebody and think about utility ideas that make sense for them so that they feel the benefit and the value of spending time to engage with their audience. The last thing we want is a lot of rug pull DAOs on our platform as well. So we provide the tech for people to create their DAOs, but at the same time, what we also offer is the expertise and the know-how from the Irene DAO project to tell people what are some of the utilities you can incorporate.
29:00Maybe how to even like budget the operation cost if you want to like price your NFTs. And how do you promote this on Instagram and Twitter with your very web tool audience? I think all these kind of little things are what creators can benefit from by working with us on Soko. What's the benefit of brands coming to this platform? Is it different from an influencer brand or how do you approach the brands? We do both B2B white label projects like we did with Nothing, the new phone brand by Calpe, as well as Ember Lounge, which is the official Formula One as well as the World Cup after party. so those are white label minting sites that we do for them depending on what they need and the entire branding of those sites and the tools and the features like NFT rental or combining NFTs to make like a super NFT it depends on the client's needs and you don't see like so-called branding pretty much anywhere and then we have smaller brands less high-end brands who come onto our platform as well who may not have the budget to do like an entire white label project or they're doing it as a proof of concept and they come to our so-called XYZ platform I think the way of working is quite similar in a sense where we really listen to our customers and the brands about what they want to get out of this.
30:13It could be upfront revenue. It could be loyalty. It could be just, you know, learning for their own team to get into Web3 early as well. And we customize every solution with them. On the tech side, usually for the white label platforms that we do, we customize everything end-to-end for them. On the platform, they work with the toolkits that we offer, like the feed function, the chat feature, the sole private DM where people can bid for a 24-hour chat window. They work with their parameters, but we also think about the utility on a very one-to-one basis with them. You're the head of business development at Sokol.
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30:48So what do you see on the field concretely? Because these are all, it's been a year and a half or two years now, this kind of like there was a big NFT wave to 2021. you have all the promises there is also all the promises of crypto blockchain which i'm a huge believer of but if you look at the actual use cases today of even crypto there's not much there's not much i accept people buying coins for speculation or people buying nfc for speculation so what do you see on the field with influencers and brands in terms of how much they understand all this stuff and how much they're actually willing to try or even very convinced to implement it and already doing it?
31:36I think I see two key trends in the last maybe one year. The first one is, as you mentioned, there's a lot of gimmick in the market, right? When projects who are supposedly building are just doing a lot of marketing without having a real product. and thankfully a lot of them have been weeded out. And it goes back to the same thing with individuals and brands, right? If you want to think about going into Web3, before diving in, I think they really have to think about their intention and their commitment to that. They can't just do it for the sake of some marketing gimmick or some branding opportunity or some quick cash because it's not going to happen like that.
32:13They come in because they really want to learn about the space or they want to build some valuable product out of Web3 technology. The second thing that I saw is that besides speculative investment, a lot of the money is now going into consumption. So you're buying tokens or you are buying NFTs because you are benefiting something from it. Besides speculative returns, you're expecting some sort of utility or benefit that you can get out of it or you truly believe in a certain project that's going to return. Okay, okay. What needs to happen to have the mass of influencers and even masses of brands move to the Web3 world?
33:03I would say education is the one thing, but it takes like a big company or a big brand with a huge voice to do this education. I think a lot of people have been talking about education, but it's not happening at scale. It's just a lot of small projects and a lot of, you know, small influencers trying to reach their corner of the world to educate people about Web3. But I think what we need is like maybe a big boy, say a Web2 social media platform, a big tech company to talk about Web3 and really make it very accessible for the masses to use Web3 technology. Perhaps Meta, Google, Microsoft could be the first few to do this.
33:38I think it's not too clear yet. I think the second thing is all of us here, the builders, have really a huge integral role in prioritizing like ease of use to bridge like Web2 and Web3 audiences. It's quite difficult to think about like bringing masses of influencers and KOLs who only think about fashion every day or beauty every day to use something as a deep tech as like a Web2 infrastructure or any developer tools. It's impossible. So I think it comes down to the people building all these projects and the products to put something that's easy. And, you know, all these blockchain technology that is beneficial for all of us can always be embedded under very friendly, similar to Web2, ease of use kind of UI, UX.
34:26I think that's what we're trying to achieve here at Sokol, where we want to make it easy for even the Web2 user who doesn't know anything, like our parents who don't have a crypto wallet, to try and get into Web3 early. Yeah, easy to use and also, yeah, easy to, we actually need to make people understand or to actually build tools that are really useful and that make life of these brands and influencers and people in general much better. Or there needs to be kind of events that are forcing people to move, like we're having now potentially with Bitcoin and the banks that are all failing. And then you have the big boy Balaji who is coming and making this, some people think crazy bet, but maybe not.
35:14And maybe it's just the moment where people are actually kind of forced to move from one system to the other. Although we might think that again, is the infrastructure of crypto and Web3 and blockchain today ready to onboard the masses in terms of banking? Probably not.
35:40Let's talk about mental health, which is a big topic in social media, because we know that the social media were basically invented with the goal of selling advertisement to people so you need to get people hooked and they need to spend as much time as possible on this social media platform so you have this basically brain i mean the basically the brain was hacked in the mid 2020 mid 2000 late 2000 uh 2009 2010 basically with facebook then instagram they really understood how to hack people's brain so you spend the majority of your time there which has consequences for both people who consume but also people who produce.
36:27So let's start with the negativity and the toxicity on social media. Some people actually say, some very famous people say that one negative comment creates more damage than 100 positive comments create good. So how do you deal with negative comments? Well, I think at the start of my social media journey, I was pretty insecure because of all these negative comments myself as well. A lot of body shaming, a lot about what I was saying was invalid or wrong or I was being very superficial. and it caused a lot of self-doubt within myself as well, especially during my formative years, say 15 to 18 years old when I'm still trying to figure out myself and develop my own self-identity as well.
37:21I think after that, I just realized that as long as I'm proud of my work, I'm proud about the things I write and post and produce, I can just tune out and just validate myself. If I'm happy with my own work, I don't need other people to validate me. And that's where all these positive or negative comments deem down in terms of its significance on how I perceive myself as well. But I must say it is quite a big problem, especially when social media is making it easier and easier for the young ones, like my cousins who are like 13, 14 years old, in their very formative years of their life coming on.
38:01And some of them have built quite a fabric of following from doing all these TikTok dances. I can imagine it's very challenging for them to realize that they can be very secure and confident of themselves despite all this negativity. How do you think social media affected and still affects your mental health? well i think one of the biggest thing that i face more from an influences perspective as well as a follower's perspective as well is the idea of like just comparing myself with everything like how much money you're making the car you drive the the trips you go to what you wear what bag you wear uh you're just really conscious about every single detail and you're just never good enough no matter how hard you try somebody else out there is posting something that you're envious about which even as an influencer posting nice stuff going for media trips I have media kids coming into my house almost every day I still have this whole self-doubt moment where I'm like okay this person is which I'm more successful prettier than me so I think how I overcome that is really deciding that I own everything myself my body my content my asset and I built this amount of things myself I may not be where I want to but I don't think I should use the people I follow on social media as the basis of my goals and I should set my own set of goals realize that maybe I haven't achieved that yet but I shouldn't feel lousy just because I didn't achieve somebody else's goals or assets.
39:41I think I'm still on the journey of working towards that. So hopefully we all go through this together. What's really interesting is you are really in the middle of the game because you are invited to a lot of events and probably you go to like nice hotels or places or dinners where you don't have to pay or don't have to pay as much. So you understand the game that basically it's not a real game. So the cars and all these, it's not real. and like the people really have the money don't show it off. And so yet, despite that, I mean, we all do the same. We're all like, we all know it's not real, yet we all kind of fall into this trap of like, like someone else doing better.
40:22There is always going to be better people, but like the people who really do being better probably don't show it that much. And it's really, it's really interesting, which basically leads us to, how much you think your vision of life has been distorted by social media can you even dissociate this social media stuff from like actual life because we spend so much time in there it's actually almost the same but one is one is very I mean one is very fake we know it yet we don't we know it but we still don't truly truly understand it So how distorted do you think that people's vision of life is? And even people who understand the game and who play the game.
41:12Exactly. I think it's perfectly okay to feel maybe a bit envious sometimes, a bit depressed because my numbers aren't looking as good as last week's numbers. I'm still human. I still get emotional sometimes. All these numbers and superficial things does get to me. But I think the most important thing is that I have to be aware of it. I have to acknowledge that this is how I'm feeling. It's not real. It's not substantiated by something that is very significant. I let myself feel this way and feel a bit lousy about, say, a lousy engagement number or like, okay, this friend of mine going to, say, Switzerland for a nice holiday.
41:53But I think at the end of the day, I just have to, like, kind of keep myself in check that, okay, this is just a bit of envy, a bit of, like, you know, self-doubt, but like don't let it get to you seriously and on a deeper level. I think one thing that an investor friend tells me, he invests into consumer apps and tech companies is that he invests in consumers' apps and social media projects. If they tick one of the boxes of the seven sins, you have your greed, your gluttony, your envy, all that lust, whichever, right? And Instagram, for example, is essentially two things, envy and lust, right?
42:37And I think just acknowledging that, okay, this social media platform thrives on that and it's designed to make me feel envy or lust or something. And yeah, sometimes I do feel that, but I just have to kind of like pull myself out of it and see from outside in view that, okay, this is how I'm feeling, let it go and just like let it pass. And it doesn't really affect me down to the core. I think it's only a real problem if it affects the way I think and my beliefs and my value system just because of all these influences from online. So talk about envy and lust. What will you tell to all your followers who envy you?
43:13You know, you might have a lot of, I mean, it's basically connected also to, you know, social media impact on self-security or insecurity. and we talked about how much is real, how much is not, yet we all still kind of fall for it. So what would you tell to your followers who have this deep sense of envy when they look at your life or your pictures? I can't imagine people feeling that way because I don't see myself as that way as well. I think it's pretty crazy that people would be envy about anything about me. But I think if they do, I think I'll just use it for good, right? if they're envious about maybe some sort of successes in my work experience or my media experiences, then I hope that I can use this influence to empower more people.
44:02Maybe even break down some of the mistakes that I made in some parts of my journey and help other people get to where I am at or even better than me in the future. I think a huge part of this is acknowledging that I do have an influence. People are listening to my voice, especially some of my judas from school our followers or the army boys who like my safety video that i did before um and i understand that okay people are listening to me and it might change some of their considerations or decisions in life and how do i use this to something good i mean maybe something as simple as posting an insta story of me at the gym at 6 30 a.m i absolutely hate feeling so sleepy sleeping in the gym um i don't want to make people think that i'm showing off that i'm in the gym so early in the morning, but if that helps one other person wake up earlier in the day, go to the gym before work and lead a healthier lifestyle, I think that is a good ROI from this influence or this envy that is created by social media already.
45:00You talked about having a good support system of friends in social media and in Web3. So how do you navigate this? How do you navigate Web3 and social media space And I would kind of even challenge you on asking, do you think that a good support system of friends should actually be other influencers or should be normal people that don't give a crap about social media or don't give a crap about crypto? So you really have these moments where you disconnect completely and you're just there like, fuck all this, you know, like, because sometimes you really, because it's so consuming, especially the crypto thing, because you have this madness on Twitter, plus like this madness on these prices that are swinging like crazy.
45:51And you're, it's all, it's all money, basically. i would think it's good to have a mix of everything you know web three friends who i can talk to about like you know the poor market condition of how difficult times have been and we suffer together and we try together it's good to have that kind of friends it's good to have some other social media influencers as well that we can exchange ideas of 10 media events together and like help each other out in their content creation journey but more importantly i think it's good to have friends who are like just tuned out out of everything it's good to have balance because without that i think you are just really stuck in one echo chamber where the whole day you're just talking about social media trends and other influences or you're just talking about crypto and you just don't look out of the box anymore and you're just really sucked into this rabbit hole and you don't see other perspectives anymore so it's good to have like a diverse mix of support system i think i've been very blessed to have some friends who are early in web 3 that helped me into my journey joining SoCo and joining Web3 space as a whole.
46:54I also have quite supportive friends who didn't see me as competition when I first joined social media as an influencer and who helped me and like brought me along to a lot of things as well and even introduced me to new people. I think I wouldn't have made it anywhere far in any accomplishment without all these friends who helped me along the way. So I think having a really good support system is like really important, but make sure it's a diverse mix of different groups of friends. What's the best advice you've ever been given? Wow, I get advice all the time. I think one of the most important ones to me that I would love to give somebody else is also to just dream big and not hold on to any limiting beliefs.
47:37I think sometimes our self-doubts are the biggest roadblock to anything we want to achieve. was something that you believe in that most people would not agree with? I think this one is still pretty relatable to my friends in Web3, but for folks in the traditional communities and industries, I think this might be a bit more controversial. It's that you're never too young to build an empire. I think when I was much younger, I always got rejected for a lot of jobs that I was competent of or I was confident of. But I was maybe 16, 18, and no one thought I could accomplish anything. But I think the crypto folks pretty much proved the point wrong, right?
48:25That you're too young for something because you see a lot of successful entrepreneurs and traders in this space are really young, even younger than both of us, right? And I think if we always believe that we are never too young to build an empire, we will eventually get somewhere. And I never would have imagined getting cast up for commercials at 16 or speaking at Decentral Miami at 23 if I held on to all these like traditional beliefs. Yeah, that's a big one actually in crypto. So you basically get your chance, no matter your age or background or anything, which is true for some people. They make it big, but there is also a lot of cops, which we saw last year.
49:08We're like, oh man, these people are like so young and like so successful. And now they're all, they should be in jail, but we don't know if they're ever going to be. But yeah, absolutely. At least you get your chance. And no one is going to judge you on your background and sex or ethnicity or age. Absolutely. Exactly. If there was a key takeaway that people should remember from today, what would it be? I think the key takeaway from today would be that everyone, and whoever's listening out there has an influence one way or another within your inner circle, at work, at school, online, or even a sub-community that you're in.
49:53And you have to identify that and you have to use that for good, whether it's to educate, empower, inspire anyone out there. Awesome. Thank you so much for your time, Vanessa. Where can the audience find you and connect with you? Well, you can find me on Instagram at vaness.h. It's V-A-N-E-S-Z-S dot H. I know a bit complicated spell, but please do it. And you can find me on Twitter as well. It's VHMQ underscore. And thank you so much for having me today, Kevin. Thank you so much. Thank you everyone for listening and watching. And please smash the like button and give us your feedback in the comments.
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From the publisher
Vanessa Ho, a former model turned tech pioneer at SoCol shares her journey from the digital temptations of social media to the transformative promise of Web 3.0. Discover how she's disrupting the digital world, transforming vices into virtues with SoCol, a groundbreaking Web 3.0 social platform enabling creators to take full control of their future. In this episode we talk about the transformative power of NFTs, the future of social media, and the art of personal branding in the new digital era. Vanessa also shares her personal journey, how social medias impact her mental health, and her strategies for navigating the ever-changing social media algorithms.
CHAPTERS
00:02:00 Key turning points in your life
00:05:00 From nothing to a real business
00:13:00 The content war
00:17:00 How to monetize your Audience
00:20:00 web3: the game changer for content creators
00:22:00 Owning your digital assets
00:29:00 SOCOL
00:32:00 The real addon value on NFTs
00:36:00 Behind the scene of social medias
00:39:00 It's not a competition
00:42:00 The 7 sins
00:45:00 Disconnecting is very important




