In short
Norma Kamali discusses her fashion career and studio, New York nightlife/culture (especially Studio 54 and pre-AIDS gay culture), fitness and resistance training, workplace culture at her company, and her views on sustainable, washable fabrics (including cotton for workouts/saunas). The hosts also riff on tech/AI for “debate prep” (Yahoo Scout) and unrelated pop-culture drink/vinyl topics.
Guests
Norma Kamali (fashion designer; has a 17,000 sq ft West Village studio with a 38-foot LED wall; has worked since age 23; known for clothing including parachute-gown installations; author of I’m Invincible, with a new paperback edition). Hosts: Chris and TJ (How Long Gone podcast; “Buy a Boat” segment; fitness and music banter).
Key claims
Midtown’s 1970s energy was shaped by Studio 54 and later by cheap rents after bankruptcy; pre-AIDS nightlife enabled a unique creative “innocence.” She avoids drugs and alcohol, and credits fear after seeing others get hurt. Her company emphasizes in-person collaboration and shared workouts (12:30 daily, live-streamed). She argues resistance training is essential for longevity and style, and promotes washable natural fabrics over dry cleaning.
Notable examples
sleeping-bag coats worn at Studio 54; workouts including “animal flow” (Leo Moves); cotton “t-shirt fabric” sauna-friendly workout wear; washing vintage/silks/satins/velvets in sinks; “dry cleaning correlates to Parkinson’s” claim.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VODebating the Boat
0:00 to 1:19
The hosts discuss their plans to expand the podcast and debate about buying a boat.
“We've been debating this off mic, off camera in our personal lives, but we're looking to expand our How Long Gone portfolio.”
Food and Celebrity Collaborations
2:16 to 6:41
The hosts discuss various food collaborations, including Mr. Beast and Liquid Death.
“You and Reese's have tangled many a time in your life.”
Vinyl and DJ Culture
6:41 to 10:42
Discussion on vinyl records, DJ culture, and Andrew Garfield's opinions.
Introducing Norma Kamali
10:42 to 14:03
The hosts introduce their guest, fashion designer Norma Kamali, and discuss her background.
“So let's get on the horn and see what's up with her.”
Discussing the Studio Setup
14:03 to 16:41
Learn about the unique setup and equipment used in the podcast studio.
“I have to say, this is one of the more interesting backgrounds that we've seen on someone's video.”
Reflections on Midtown Manhattan
16:41 to 19:15
Explore the changes in Midtown Manhattan and the speaker's long-time connection to New York.
“And it's all one level instead of floors of a building.”
Studio 54 and Fashion Choices
19:15 to 21:16
Delve into memories of Studio 54 and the fashion trends of the era.
“So I was working feverishly into the night.”
Cultural Shifts and NYC History
21:16 to 24:16
Understand the cultural shifts in NYC during the 70s and 80s and their impact.
“really is so much a part of the culture of, of what the pop culture and whether it's West Coast, East Coast, New York really is the perfect background for so many things, whether it was 60s, 70s, 80s.”
Personal Choices and Drug Culture
24:16 to 27:15
Hear about personal choices regarding drugs amidst the vibrant NYC nightlife.
“And it was very sad when so many people that you knew were dying and nobody could figure out what the hell is this?”
Early Career Experiences
27:15 to 28:00
Learn about the challenges of starting a business at a young age and managing older employees.
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Early Business Challenges
28:00 to 28:54
Learn about the early challenges and growth experiences of a young entrepreneur.
“And I was pretty young when those things happened.”
Evolving Workplace Culture
28:54 to 30:13
Discover how workplace culture and creativity have shifted over the decades.
“So now because of that, all of the people that work for you are treated with love and care and respect because of that.”
Workplace Interaction and Creativity
30:13 to 31:15
Explore the importance of collaborative environments for creativity in business.
“Basically, this is like, what do you mean insurance?”
Group Workouts and Team Building
31:15 to 33:32
Understand how team workouts contribute to a strong company culture.
“I assume you have a rich office culture where people come in because it's collaborative.”
Unique Workout Regimens
33:32 to 35:39
Examine the variety of workout styles and the importance of fitness in daily life.
“So I'm not sure where you might be at that time.”
The Evolution of Fitness Trends
35:39 to 40:18
Learn about the historical shifts in fitness culture and its relation to social dancing.
“You put some signs up on the bulletin board.”
Socializing Through Fitness
40:18 to 42:04
Discuss how working out and dancing serve as social activities that connect people.
“I can't be anywhere without just getting up.”
The Role of Fitness in Relationships
42:04 to 45:00
Explore how fitness compatibility can impact romantic relationships.
“And now I think gyms probably are a great place to meet people.”
Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth
47:15 to 50:20
Discuss the evolution of relationships and personal growth experiences.
“and I'm going to let this ride out for a few more weeks.”
The Intersection of Fashion and Fitness
50:21 to 55:46
Delve into the impact of fabric choices on fitness and sustainability.
“You weren't looking for love, maybe, is what?”
The Benefits of Washable Fabrics
56:00 to 58:09
Learn about the importance of washable clothing and its impact on sustainability.
“maybe more expensive right now, maybe more complicated because of the different treatments to kind of recycle and do some of these things.”
Germaphobia and Personal Hygiene
58:10 to 1:00:28
Explore different attitudes towards cleanliness and hygiene in public spaces.
“But dry cleaning fluid is not good for you, obviously.”
The Legacy of Shoulder Pads
1:00:29 to 1:01:09
Discover the cultural significance of shoulder pads in fashion history.
“I would like to think my immune system is rock solid.”
Cultural Perceptions of Fashion and Drugs
1:01:10 to 1:03:42
Discuss the intersection of fashion culture and perceptions of drug use.
“I said, oh, my God, I've never tried candy from Pakistan.”
The Met Gala and the State of Fashion
1:03:43 to 1:07:28
Analyze the implications of the Met Gala for the fashion industry and designers.
“But I do, and he did mention, which leads me back to the question, he did mention that looking at me, he thought for sure that I would be interested in the community from Pakistan.”
Pursuing Longevity and Health
1:07:29 to 1:10:03
Examine the desire for longevity and the role of technology in healthcare.
“It grows and grows and grows and turns into something maybe that it wasn't intended to turn into.”
Exploring Longevity and Health
1:10:03 to 1:12:08
The conversation delves into the desire to live longer and the importance of quality of life as it relates to aging and health.
“And I think that there's opportunities for you guys who are in your 40s, you said, and for me to look at how to have a healthier life and how to benefit from some of this technology.”
The Concept of Retirement
1:12:09 to 1:13:28
The hosts discuss their views on retirement, emphasizing the importance of staying active and engaged.
“Because the quality of life without the assistance of technology...”
Creatine and Bloating Concerns
1:13:29 to 1:15:16
A light-hearted discussion about the effects of creatine and the shared experiences of bloating, especially among women.
“As long as you can do what you're doing.”
Promoting 'I Am Invincible'
1:15:17 to 1:15:56
The guest shares insights about her book 'I Am Invincible', highlighting its workout tips, recipes, and personal stories.
“It's a high-level, high-quality probiotic.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00We've been debating this off mic, off camera in our personal lives, but we're looking to expand our How Long Gone portfolio. And we've been debating what we should do, and I think we've landed on a boat. I've been using Yahoo Scout to make my case for the boat. I've gotten a lot of great information from Yahoo Scout. It's organized it all perfectly for me. and I have the data to fight you in the squared circle, but do you have something to bring to the table? Have you been using Yahoo Scout as well?
0:32Jason Stewart:So the host of How Long Gone podcast, Buy a Boat, I typed in R instead of T and it said, should it buy a boar? And then Yahoo Scout was really cranking out a lot of agricultural relevance with livestock farmings as an investment. And instead of saying, oh, did you mean a boat? It said, no, I'm going to give you lots of pros and cons and things that you should talk about if you're trying to win a debate about boar ownership. I'm still focused on the boat. I don't want to get into our financials, etc. I'm just going to put all that information into the Yahoo Scout and let it spit out all the data and then I'll present you with a kind of a fully formed idea in deck format and we can kind of take it from there.
1:16But I feel pretty good about this. Thanks to Yahoo Scout.
1:18Jason Stewart:Try Yahoo Scout yourself at scout.com.
1:39we're gonna do it bitch how long gone bonjour monsoor tj uh i'm i'm coming to you from i'm paris i'm feeling a little fried but i'm i'm actually getting pumped up now just just hearing your voice does that you know what i mean it's ready it makes me get in the zone slow down if i
1:58Jason Stewart:had a dollar every time a male told me that it makes me get i didn't say i didn't say i'm i'm i'm on chubb i'm just saying get in the zone work wise okay get your mind out of the gutter i wish i could it seems like it's stuck there it seems like my mind i've tried everything um yeah what's up yeah sorry i'm uh i feel bad showing up late with a coffee but i only made i made it in the other room i didn't stop i was hoping blue bottle i was hoping you were gonna have the feastables liquid death peanut butter cup 100 flavored sparkling water but if if that's not available i guess coffee will do is that the mr beast collab that's right feastable yeah that's right mr beast got his little paws and everything liquid it's liquid death peanut butter sparkling water is that what you said it's so crazy it's so yeah it is it's so like those words should never be spoken together but a loss uh it looks like mr beast has done it again talk a lot of shit on liquid death but i would have thought they would have been a above partnering with mr beast but i guess not i don't think i think when you see the the beast numbers you kind of some some of your shareholders might might uh not allow you to say no to the beast is kind of the feeling i'm starting to get um i don't want i'd like to think that that liquid death they're so punk they don't bend the knee to their shareholders um i think that i think that faux punk branding uh i think that his i'm imagining you know three guys who you know motorcycle kind of biker guys you know grizzled yeah face tats you know ex-cons they ride motorcycles but they're pristine triumphs where they have their leica camera over their shoulder oh they're they're the they ride electric motorcycles in malibu with diplo's kids and they have a really fun time they're actually super fun and i'm not really into tattoos my mom didn't like that very much is um with the young chris black with his kind of you know his his palette that was maybe not what it is today was there a time I know that you're a peanut butter cup enthusiast.
4:07Jason Stewart:You and Reese's have tangled many a time in your life. Is there a time when you would have been interested in the flavor of a peanut butter cup flavored sparkling soda water from Feastables and Liquid Death? I mean, I don't think I had sparkling water until I was probably like 20. So I don't know if, you know, I don't know. Broke shit. Don't lie, bitch. I know you didn't have it either. so don't yeah it's called Sprite Sprite it tastes lemon lime they have La Croix now it's the same kind of vibe that's true I guess I did have a lot of Sprite if we're getting into that no I don't think I would have been tempted by the flavors of peanut butter sparkling water but this is just one of those are we running out of ideas situations where I feel like they could have come up with something more palatable but maybe that wouldn't have got us talking the way this did so you know good on that Mr.
4:59Jason Stewart:Beast makes stuff for five-year-olds and under, so it makes sense that they would want to sell this, and enough people are going to buy it. The can is dope. I'm happy for that. I mean, you know, Troye Sivan is making piss-filled vinyl. Like, is there much of a difference between the two things? You know what I mean? Not in terms of color and liquid and viscosity. Well, one, you don't have to drink. One, you do. You know, that's the thing. So I feel like the peanut butter becomes more offensive where— When you say have to drink. Yeah, sure. piss-filled vinyl is just sexy fetish stuff you know that's that's that falls into a somehow less sinister category i would say i'm assuming that troy savant because for our listeners that don't know his his new record is coming out and everyone does these crazy vinyls and some of them are you know splatter pink and some of them have liquid and i think maybe there's one that was like this one has come or this one is whatever but troy is is gonna say i'm doing piss-filled vinyl i'm assuming it's not actual piss because that feels illegal yeah i mean but you know it's a brown it's a it's a you know the color of a newcastle brown ale back in back in our day you were just lucky lucky to get one that was half red half white or whatever you know maybe maybe maybe something a little funky one that can play i mean because nobody's going to play these records anyway what i miss the most is the the classic flexi disc that would be included in in one of your zines you know what I mean that felt like a thin record but a thick piece of paper throw that thing on the turntable like something like the FBI would store their files on in the 50s yeah you can melt it down like some fucking Drake chains no problem but I'm glad that we're talking about records and vinyl because I just saw our friend of the show Kareem Subway takes with my friend Andrew Garfield did you see this no his Subway take is that you can't call yourself a dj unless you spin vinyl how is he i mean look i i we talk about shit we're unqualified for how is andrew garfield an authority on the matter great question he's he's not elijah wood he wasn't doing sets at the ace in palm springs all vinyl well his his story that he tells is he was he was hanging out in berlin and he went to a dj set where the guy was playing on vinyl and he expressed to Andrew how he had to go through his records and make a playlist and sort them out and you know and go on a journey and this is my gift to the crowd kind of thing but but also Andrew Garfield a guy who calls records vinyls should not really have you can't yeah this this was a debate recently you can't vinyl is is no s and I think there was some debate and I think maybe the decision was it does have an s but i'm not subscribing to that that's not part of my journey i mean it's the same i mean there's just there's nomenclatures and words and the way we say things in so many you know like like with skateboarding there's like different ways to hold your deck and different ways to place your feet it all does the same thing but it tells you everything you need to know and andrew garfield the next time we are on a flight and we have an emergency landing it is on site bro well i mean i i think there's some sort of feature with a usb stick what'd you do to him oh i took the usb stick to his skull you know how many times you got to hit somebody with a usb stick you got to really be mad that's real murder yeah i didn't know andrew yeah andrew's not qualified to say that but i'm sure he got nervous he didn't want to say anything about acting you know he didn't want to go tom cruise mode it was a little more it was it feels innocuous to him as a guy who doesn't come from the underground music space so i i feel like it's unfair kareem if only i were there to 100 disagree with him to create some good content did kareem agree did kareem or agree or disagree he agreed he agreed what the fuck does he know he can't say shit either i can't say shit good question i can't say good question only my heads can say that only my heads can say that kareem i'll give you a pass because we're bros i owe you a call back you wanted to ask me questions about the hawaii islands don't go there right now hurricane katrina that's everywhere um i uh i went to see interpol at mercury lounge on sunday night i told you that i got back from uh where'd i get back from jesus christ i got back from san francisco i got back from san francisco and jacob and i went to momofuku east village so i could get some nourishing broth in my system tj style but man interpol interpol at mercury they said we haven't played here since august 20 2001 i was like wow okay pre-9-11 man i gotta say they fucking they sounded so good in there i don't know what is going on because i know they had to cut you know 90 of their gear from their you know 75 000 people co-headline with queens of the stone age in mexico city uh but it was i tell you what stripped down i'll tell you what man it fucking his voice sounded amazing i i give all the props to the sound guy whoever's mixing his vocals i never say this but it really stuck out to me and i for for heads of uh how long gone deep listeners and fans they know that chris never ever comments on the quality of a vocal mix i'm not a fidelity i'm not a fidelity guy all that being said i gotta try my new tom brown bows headphones when i get back i didn't have time to get the cashmere caps on my ears but i haven't seen these they're sick what color gray pinstripe are they they're gray and they have the stripes but they're the the the little whatever the ear cups or cashmere the party i missed him annoyed because ice age played which is pretty sick uh so i was i was bummed to miss that but i haven't tried the headphones yet i have them at home and they're in the box but i'm gonna try them when i get back well speaking of high fashion it looks like our guest is here chris our guest is here norma kamali's joining us stay on how long gone there's a new paperback edition of her book that is in stores everywhere I am invincible.
10:49But we got a lot to talk about. She's busier than us. She makes us look like losers. So let's get on the horn and see what's up with her.
10:56Jason Stewart:I would love to. We've been debating this off mic, off camera in our personal lives. But we're looking to expand our How Long Gone portfolio. And we've been debating what we should do. And I think we've landed on a boat. I've been using Yahoo Scout to make my case for the boat. I've gotten a lot of great information from Yahoo Scout it's organized it all perfectly for me and I have the data to fight you in the squared circle but I have you done do you have something to bring to the table have you been using Yahoo Scout as well so the host of How Long Gone podcast buy a boat I typed in R instead of T and it said should it buy a boar and then you know Yahoo Scout was really cranking out a lot of agricultural relevance with live shark farmings as an investment and instead of saying, oh, did you mean a boat?
11:48Jason Stewart:It said, no, I'm going to give you lots of pros and cons and things that you should talk about if you're trying to win a debate about boar ownership. I'm still focused on the boat. I don't want to get into our financials, et cetera. I'm just going to put all that information into the Yahoo Scout and let it spit out all the data, and then I'll present you with a kind of a fully formed idea in deck format, and we can kind of take it from there. But I feel pretty good about this. Thanks to Yahoo Scout. Try Yahoo Scout yourself at scout.com. We all know eating out in New York has become an extreme sport.
12:23Jason Stewart:If you treat dining out like a full-time obsession and care about the scene just as much as what's on the menu, you need to listen to Expense Account. Expense Account uses food as an entry point to bigger conversations about culture, identity, taste, and the way we live now. It treats every meal as a window into someone's life and the world at large. Hosted by Jay Lee, food critic at Emily Sundberg's Feed Me Media Empire. Each episode features Jay sitting down with guests like writer Molly Boz, chef Carla Lally, PBS host Patty Ginch, and so, so many more to explore how food and culture are inextricably linked.
13:02Jason Stewart:You might also hear from musicians, writers, tastemakers. I even recorded an episode with them as well on the cutting room floor. or even the bartender at Jay's favorite joint, because everyone eats, everyone has a story, and everyone has a take. How are you? Nice to meet you, Norma. How are you? Nice to meet you both, yes. I'm very excited. This is going to be fun. I can tell. I can tell. Are you saying this is going to be exciting because you just love podcasts in general, or has somebody briefed you on us in particular? A little, I would say a little bit of both. Sure. Yeah. Okay. A little bit of both.
13:44I accept a little bit of both. That's great. That's great for me.
13:47Jason Stewart:The team warned you. Did the team warn you about anything? I don't, I think maybe they should be warning us about you instead of you. Yeah. It does feel like a reverse situation. It does feel like a reverse situation. No, it wasn't, it wasn't warning. I think they just said, you're going to love this. Okay, good. We'll take that. Yeah. I have to say, this is one of the more interesting backgrounds that we've seen on someone's video. What is to the left of your head there? Is that a microphone? Yeah, it's a little, yeah, on something. It's a new apparatus that it's just got this big screen, I guess.
14:23It's a windscreen. Okay. It's a big one.
14:26Jason Stewart:That's actually called a pop filter. It's called a pop filter, guys. Whenever we say certain letters like a P or an S or a T, it creates a little frequency that can hurt your ears after a long time. So they filter it out with that little guy. I was, okay, because I couldn't, it almost looked like a Dyson product, just the angle that I'm getting. And I thought you had something I didn't have. No, it's very good looking. So I said, okay, I'll take it. I don't know where to do it, but it looks good. On this side, anyway. That's nice. Things look good on this side. Yeah, I mean, that's nine tenths of anything.
15:01Jason Stewart:Does it look good? That's all we care. In fashion, that's it. That's our level of reaching the pinnacle. Does it look good? Yeah. I mean, you know, I would say the pinnacle is it looks good and it doesn't fall apart after the first wash.
15:19Jason Stewart:But I like the, yeah, behind you, there appears to be an aluminum. It's like a very, when somebody is on methamphetamines and they put foil in the windows, you're doing it in a very chic, you know, Maria Abramovich. Brahmavich installation kind of thing. Absolutely. Actually, it's a huge decal that's on the wall of a parachute gown I did. And it's on a man, which is very nice because the contrast is lovely. Get you a man in a gown like Dennis Rodman. A man in a gown made out of a parachute that has a silver coating on it. Okay, does that parachute, though, what's the noise level when I'm strutting?
16:07It feels like it's swishing a lot. It's got music. It has lots of music.
16:13Jason Stewart:It's got the music in you. Okay, that's a good way to put it. Now, are we at our office? Are we at home? Where is all this stuff located? I have a studio that is 17 ,000 square feet in the West Village in Manhattan. Okay, do we own or lease? Well, we lease. I had a building in Midtown Manhattan for 40-something years, and I said, get me out of Midtown. So the first thing I could get once I saw the building was, okay, this is a great space. And it's all one level instead of floors of a building. And we have a 38-foot wall, LED wall, which is fun to do things on. And we use the space for all different kinds of, we've done comedy shows, we've done, we have workouts twice a week that we live stream, and we have a lot of fun events in the space too.
17:15So you're making use of the square footage, because that's an impressive amount of square footage for the West Village particularly. Yes. Or anywhere in New York. Yeah.
17:22Jason Stewart:Even upstate. Well, you mentioned being in Midtown for a long time. Yeah. I don't know how much you like to talk about your age, but you've been living in New York since the 40s? I've been since 1945. Since 1945. To be clear, you were born in New York. Let's not. Okay. Jason, that wording was unkind. It's kind of like there's more other than. Okay. You are in your 80s. I'm 81. You're 81 years young. 80s could be more, so we'll stay with the 80s. You look three years younger than me. Yeah, that's... And I'm half your age. It's fucked up. But my question is, has there ever been a time where Midtown was enjoyable or cool?
18:06You know, I'm a diehard New Yorker. So no matter what's happening, this is my hometown and I love it. But it's, you know, we're suffering through some times of whatever. Just giving ourselves to the environment. environment but so i i like you know safe places and friendly places so west village is very very friendly i think what jason i think what jason is asking a little bit though is what was the vibe of midtown in like the 70s was it a little because now we think of it as like office buildings corporate you know and i assume at other times it was not that i think is what the i'm hoping it was always boring no it no um so midtown i i was on 56th street and um i know you guys had ian frager
19:01Jason Stewart:on recently we did we did yes who's your ex-boyfriend that's true that's okay and um so we were we were together during studio 54 and so that was a very interesting time so did you like him or did you just want to get in every night i never i never went i never went you went a few times so no i know i did what did you did you just stay at home to make him feel no no i'm not that i'm not that either i it was just um but i have fun at your little club with your friends So I was making a lot of clothes for people who were going to Studio 54. So I was working feverishly into the night. So I had a choice.
19:54Do you want to go or do you want to build a business that you would like to base a career on? So I was very hungry and made a choice. and we would have parties before it opened but i was there all the time to see before it opened to see what the party was going to look like and yeah and my sleeping bag coats were worn by the doorman and people were buying sleeping bag coats hoping that that would get them in and i had no problem with that you're like you know what i don't take issue with that at all whatever purchase does not guarantee admission you can try um i'm up you can try it won't hurt you it won't hurt you it does get cold that's tough to be in a relationship with someone in nightlife jason's a dj he's dealt with it his whole life you know those hours aren't conducive i would say to
20:49Jason Stewart:other people's most of the time yeah but how did it feel like going in through the doors and you look in the coat check at studio 54 and you know half of the coats are ones that you designed and made yourself. Very nice. It was very, it was very nice. But, but, you know, you talked, you did ask a serious question, I'm assuming, and that is that the city from decade to decade really is so much a part of the culture of, of what the pop culture and whether it's West Coast, East Coast, New York really is the perfect background for so many things, whether it was 60s, 70s, 80s. I mean, till now, I just, the background color is so important.
21:43And even when the color is not so pretty. And during Studio 54, the city was tough. Yeah. It was bankrupt and a lot of people left the city, but then a lot of people came in and had these really cheap rents and were able to survive in a new city and do so because it was pretty much abandoned. And that's when this great gay culture developed of this incredible energy that I don't think has been matched since then. We weren't there and we would agree with you. So I think that's a testament. That's a testament to it.
22:29Jason Stewart:We've talked about this specific time that was happening in New York and in parts of LA at the same time, like east side of LA and Echo Park and those places where only gay people had the chutzpah to go in there and make a home and beautify the area and create life and art and culture. and I've talked about it before, but I refer to this, the most magical time in history as pre-AIDS, mid-Coke. When just before AIDS came and nobody realized that cocaine was bad for you, there was like, what, a five-year period where life was just, you know, we had, what's his name, from Barney's on. You're talking about Gene Pressman?
23:13Yes. Yeah, Pressman.
23:15Jason Stewart:Who I'm assuming you might know, but you know just his stories regaling of that time you know i'm i'm i'm gonna meet up with somebody tomorrow to get quaaludes off of them quaaludes are back now right right you know it's all it's all coming together well i do think that your assessment of that time where there was an innocence that had no fear. It was just pure abandonment, pure joy and music, fashion, and this kind of living experience was part of the generation. Obviously, baby boomers were very much a part of that. And it was exciting. And Ian, I'm sure, said this too. He and I both agree that the creativity and the population that contributed to that creativity was extraordinary.
24:16And it was very sad when so many people that you knew were dying and nobody could figure out what the hell is this? Why is this happening? And then that harsh reality really affected music and fashion and creativity. And then it turned into something else. And obviously there's always this high and low and the low gives birth to the new high. And so New York obviously is a great background for that to happen. Yeah, I kind of forget that there was a period where people didn't know what was happening and why, which is insane to think about now, you know, sort of as a culture where information is so quickly and easily disseminated.
25:11You know what I mean? It's like a little bit like, there's no mystery left for anything. There's no, you know, any question you want an answer for, right or wrong, you'll get an answer. So I think it's kind of insane to think something that's sweeping was sort of like, what's going on? Why is this happening? The difference of not having a phone on you or that having to go someplace to make a phone call or to receive a call, just that alone, the dynamic impact of not having communication and having communication in different ways. obviously people were communicating physically in different ways than we do now there was much more physical you mean they were having sex but sex and communicating you go down to the coffee shop
26:04Jason Stewart:in the bottom of your building you see all your neighbors and your friends and you read the newspaper no no of course of course you're a member of society you're connecting yeah you're connecting and we would spend so much time in central park like on weekends during the days getting together. I mean, I remember wearing velvet gowns from the 30s and 40s to Central Park on Saturdays and Sundays. Everybody would dress up. So what drugs were you on? It's almost like you assumed everybody was in another place, right? Everybody was somewhere else and i was i mean and still am very boring i've never done any drugs and i don't drink alcohol so i'm like some you're an anomaly yes but you're one of those people where you don't need drugs because you are drugs that's that has been yes yeah not the first time somebody has said that that sentence to you well i don't want to say anything but yeah when i'm lying in the grass in a velvet dress people assume things you know so you so you you never even tried a sniff no good for you i get that though i think that i think that sometimes when you're i know certain types of people they were just like yeah it's not it was it was too crazy and it wasn't for me and i just kind of knew always knew yeah and and surrounded by you know having a store and most of my most of the people who shopped in the store i mean the the new york dolls were constant no not those guys those guys were living clean come on no but i'm just saying that that they i was surrounded by every drug possible and people were always coming in to sell drugs and it was sort of okay because everybody was doing it.
27:55But when I saw people close to me get sort of in a bad way, it scared me a lot. And I was pretty young when those things happened. So I got scared into just staying away. I didn't feel that I could handle it. How old were you when you had the store? Like, when did you open the store? I started in business when I was 23. Yeah, that's quite young, I would say. I mean, especially because you're the boss, which I'm sure was a weird sensation. Which is very interesting having everybody older than you pay absolutely no attention to anything you say. It was really, it was very, talk about growing up and learning the hard way.
28:43My fucking name's on the door. You have to listen to me. I was so abused, but those are the things that kind of teach you how to scrapple and make it.
28:54Jason Stewart:So now because of that, all of the people that work for you are treated with love and care and respect because of that. But the interesting thing about the people in the company, it's so different each decade, I would say, if I just break it up that way, on the approach to work, the work ethic, the approach to creativity, and what the workplace offers. I mean, this working out with everybody working out together is something I never would have thought of then because everybody was going out dancing together. So it was like shifted or we're all going to get together and smoke cigarettes. Yeah. Yeah.
29:42The 90s, the 90s were smoking cigarettes. But but it was so I think now there's a different behavior. And so you can't compare different times for the way people are in the workplace. But the good news for me is people who love to be creative and like to have new ideas and play around are comfortable here. And I like to attract those kinds of people. Yeah, I mean, I think that I've talked to a lot of people, maybe not in your position, but people who, you know, start off doing something creative and then wake up one day and they're like, I have 50 employees. What the fuck? This is not what I want to be doing.
30:24Basically, this is like, what do you mean insurance? Like, I don't give a fuck about this. Like, I'm trying to make a dress, goddammit. And I'm sure that happened to you a few times, probably. I think it happens to everybody because human beings have ups and downs, right? And somebody that's incredible can all of a sudden break up with their boyfriend or have something terrible happen in their lives.
30:49Jason Stewart:Oh, your parents died. Get back to work. And that's why AI is better. No. They don't have families. But there is the human interaction is also the great part of it. and how people are creative together and that energy is really special. Well, do you have, so you're saying now in 2026, I assume you have a rich office culture where people come in because it's collaborative. You're not super, yeah, just work from home whenever it's a little more necessary. Not happening. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. This is not, it's not, you know, I think the fun of it is like if you're having fittings and you're working on clothes and it's a creative experience, you don't want to miss how that feels.
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31:43You want to be a part of it. You want to interact with it. And everything we do is some other form of creative experience. So this is not the kind of company where working from home can work. But if there are people here, maybe that work on the archive or things like that, and they want to work from home for a period of time. I don't have a problem with that, but I do feel the experience together is so, it's rich and it's important. Working out together where everybody from any department in any aspect of the company, working out together, sweating and trying to get through a tough workout, that's also, So it's sort of like a team that does things together and you feel.
32:35Jason and I are a team. We do that together sometimes. Do you really? Oh, for sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
32:41Jason Stewart:We push each other. If we're in the gym and Chris doesn't have as many plates on the bar as he should, I'll call him a pussy in other names. So encouraging. And then he's able to hit his personal best goal by hook or by crook, as they say. So when you're doing these workouts in the studio, what is the participation rate and what kind of workout? Is it like Tracy Anderson mode? Like what is the vibe of the workout? It's a Tracy Anderson type thing. It's pretty rigorous. But depending on if there's a department that has a deadline, that team may not be showing up for that. What time is the workout?
33:24What time is the workout? It's the same time every day, 1230. and you could join us because we live stream, but it's Eastern time. So I'm not sure where you might be at that time. Okay, 12, all right, 1230. I'm in New York. I might come IRL. I might just show up. You could join us. Okay, and my follow-up question, how sweaty are we getting and how does that impact my return to the desk? Well, there you go. So people can bring whatever they like to change And we have pretty large bathrooms with many sinks and lots of opportunity to do whatever you may need to do to refresh. But we sweat together.
34:09And you know what? We stink together, too. So we're... But here's the thing.
34:14Jason Stewart:I have a feeling... But it's that good stink, you know? The pheromones are there. Tons. I have a feeling, much like Jason and I's wives, if we go do the same workout, I come out looking like I got splashed by a garbage truck. And you're maybe a little damp around the temples is my guess. It is tough on guys. It's because it's flexibility and it's just totally against sort of. So who is programming this workout? You? No. We have different trainers coming in. And sometimes we'll have a meditation. Sometimes we'll have yoga. Sometimes we'll... Push-up contest? Animal flow. Animal flow? Do you know about animal flow?
35:01Are you talking about goat yoga? There's a guy I follow in Switzerland who has this incredible workout. And it's animal flow. And it's using, just using your body against itself. And an animal, but you're moving like an animal is what you're saying. Yeah. Okay. But it's really brilliant. And he's got a global following. And he did a tour, a world tour. He does those occasionally. And he came and taught some classes. So that was a big day when he was coming to town.
35:39Jason Stewart:You put some signs up on the bulletin board. Yeah. we also told friends and people who tuned in and and anybody else that has a really interesting technique it's helpful yeah that's i mean so you're you're on the cutting you're you're sort of doing a live podcast but for fitness and for working out yeah um and i feel like the animal flow that i want to look into that because i people say like like crawling on all fours as a human is like in a really amazing workout i don't know how much crawling you're doing but No, definitely. Leo Moves is his name. And you guys take a look at it. It's pretty impressive.
36:18I've done a lot of crawling, actually. And it's deceptively hard. No, I mean, during COVID, I was crawling around.
36:25Jason Stewart:No, crawl, slave. I mean, it is gnarly. It's a lot harder than it looks, I think, is what people... You really have to... It's a full body sort of... Especially as Chris and I are both tall guys, so it's even harder for us to crawl. You don't want to see a tall crawl. No, that's true. It is. It's a lot of leg and arm action. Yeah. My core is so long. You know what I mean? When you started, you've seen all the workout trends come and go. You know, I've seen many in my whatever 15, 20 years of working out. What were the highs and lows? Like, were you jazzercising? Were you soul cycling? Like, how far do you take it?
37:02So I love, first of all, I love and still do dancing. So if there's a dance party, if I'm not invited, I still go. I love it. But I do think that the amount of dancing that happened in the 60s and 70s changed as you got into the 80s till now. So exercise really started to fill in in the 80s. And Jane Fonda clearly had a huge impact. She had an incredible cassette exercise routine that really still holds up today. And it's really fantastic. I work out every day. It's really important for me. So I've tried everything. and I pretty much like to stick to them for a while to really feel like I'm mastering it.
38:05So I was lucky to work and train with Joe Pilates' protege who took over when he passed and she was just incredible. You went straight to the source. You went to the source. Miss Pilates. I actually, yeah, I sketched some of the movements with the magic circle for people who have taken Pilates. Oh, what? I did that for 11 years, and I really loved that. But I like, you know, circuit training. I used to run a lot. But there are different things that you do for different purposes. And for me now, I think, obviously, and we all agree, muscle tone and resistance training is also critically important for
39:02Jason Stewart:men and women and for longevity. In terms of looking hot in clothing? And also staying alive. You're like, look. Well, I mean, people say the body is the best accessory or that is the style. that is yeah um well do you what do you say to other ladies in your life who have maybe been resistant to resistance training pardon the pun because they don't want to have their arms and shoulders look you know big and bulky they want to have a little more of a slim silhouette yeah i think so but i think um it takes time for people to adapt to different things and i i think it's best not to put pressure on them and say, you know, when you feel up to it, you'll do it.
39:50You'll come around. I'll see you. I'll see you. We'll save you a seat. I'll see you. I'll see you. I'll save you a reformer.
39:58Jason Stewart:The product sells itself. You don't need to convince you. If you want to go on the journey, you'll come find me. I mean, look, that's a lifelong commitment. I have to say it's quite inspiring because I think that you were doing this when nobody was doing it. Now this is all people want to do, which is it is like a very different time as far as our the way we look at it but i've i've never heard anyone talk about like the the rise of fitness culture and phenomenon coinciding with the fall of dancing just like general public dancing in society you know i was yeah uh my my wife's parents uh her dad had a birthday party his 70th birthday a few weeks ago and you know people who are around 70 years old you know a song comes on at a birthday party and everyone just gets up and dances not a single look of worry that somebody is judging them or taking a video they're just like oh music is playing and i just dance and nobody and i was like this does not happen at all for for my generation chris and i are in our 40s yeah let alone 19 year olds they're So like 11 people are filming them at any given moment, so they can't dance.
41:09Yeah, it's totally dancing. I can't be anywhere without just getting up. I don't care where I am, who's there. I don't care. I make up shit. I do whatever I want.
41:23Jason Stewart:Well, why do you think it stopped? Why do you think it stopped? I think the further away we got from socializing. And so the 80s, remember AIDS, right? So that took a toll. That really quieted down the nightlife and social activities, right? And that lasted a while. And I think that that's when health, the question about health started to come to the surface. And so if you work out, it's sort of a step towards health. And then I think bringing in this social communication really separates us. And now I think gyms probably are a great place to meet people. it's just i mean it's there you're wearing similar clothes that you would wear to to dancing you're moving your body especially the especially the ladies the ladies are putting it out there i gotta say i gotta say you know what they look like with their clothes off already yeah it is like dancing in that way point made yes exactly so i do think i and you're sweating It's all the same thing.
42:44And you share an experience together. And if you like to work out, and there's a guy who likes to work out too, there's a similarity that's really important, right? It's hard to be with someone that doesn't feel the same about it. I think it's challenging. it's hard enough in a relationship to have as many compatible things to to make it work are you both married yes yeah we are yeah we are yeah so uh so what's more important than nurturing a relationship and giving it strength and the things that you can do together if it's running or working out it's so great see actually i look at this i look at this differently i Obviously, my wife works out five days a week, but that's Chris time.
43:39I want to be alone. We do it together occasionally. Whatever. If it works out on the weekend or if we're traveling or whatever, we'll do it.
43:47Jason Stewart:I think you guys probably walk a lot together. We do walk a lot. We're New York residents. We do walk together. My wife and I, we walk the dog every morning. That's our communal fitness. We'll go do a Pilates class together every once in a while. But when I go to the gym, I'm like, Chris, I'm there. I'm alone. I've got my binaural beats playing and I'm trying to do a deadlift. No, I think that part of it is a separate thing. But I think that whether you walk together or run together or do different kinds of activities like that, I think that's great. And then there's no way my husband's going to do Pilates with me.
44:28He just does like, you're crazy. I'm not I can't do that I can't do that don't even you know well I was I was going to ask you
44:36Jason Stewart:because you were saying like how important it is for two people to be compatible on their level of fitness right have you ever dated guys over the years that were so hot you didn't care that they didn't work out absolutely we've been debating this off mic you know off camera in our personal lives but you know we're looking to expand our how long gone portfolio and we've been debating what we should do, and I think we've landed on a boat. I've been using Yahoo Scout to make my case for the boat. I've gotten a lot of great information from Yahoo Scout. It's organized it all perfectly for me, and I have the data to fight you in the squared circle, but do you have something to bring to the table?
45:21Have you been using Yahoo Scout as well?
45:23Jason Stewart:So the host of How Long Gone podcast, Buy a Boat, I typed in R instead of T, and it said, should it buy a boar? And then Yahoo Scout was really cranking out a lot of agricultural relevance with live shark farmings as an investment. And instead of saying, oh, did you mean a boat? It said, no, I'm going to give you lots of pros and cons and things that you should talk about if you're trying to win a debate about boar ownership. I'm still focused on the boat. I don't want to get into our financials, et cetera. I'm just going to put all that information into the Yahoo Scout and let it spit out all the data and then I'll present you with a kind of a fully formed idea in deck format and we can kind of take it from there.
46:07But I feel pretty good about this. Thanks to Yahoo Scout.
46:09Jason Stewart:Try Yahoo Scout yourself at scout.com. We all know eating out in New York has become an extreme sport. If you treat dining out like a full-time obsession and care about the scene just as much as what's on the menu, you need to listen to Expense Account. Expense Account uses food as an entry point to bigger conversations about culture, identity, taste, and the way we live now. It treats every meal as a window into someone's life and the world at large. Hosted by Jay Lee, food critic at Emily Sundberg's Feed Me Media Empire. Each episode features Jay sitting down with guests like writer Molly Baz, chef Carla Lally, PBS host Patty Ginch, and so, so many more to explore how food and culture are inextricably linked.
46:55Jason Stewart:You might also hear from musicians, writers, tastemakers. I even recorded an episode with them as well on the cutting room floor. Even the bartender at Jay's favorite joint, because everyone eats, everyone has a story, and everyone has a take. Absolutely.
47:14You're like, we are not compatible at all,
47:16Jason Stewart:and I'm going to let this ride out for a few more weeks. I tell you, I had a lot of we are not compatible relationships. It definitely took me a long time. I mean, other than Ian. Other than Ian. Yeah, other than Ian. Thank you so much. Actually, Ian introduced me to my husband, and we got married four years ago. But you'd been together a long time? Yeah, but not a long, long time. You got married four years ago. Yeah. And I thought, how is Ian going to introduce me to the, like, what? I said, you want to introduce me to someone? Like, for what? Like, I thought it was a business thing. I mean, Ian's going to be six feet in the ground still connecting people somehow.
47:59Jason Stewart:You know what I mean? Here, there's going to be a hand coming out of the dirt with, here's my card. No, he takes full credit for everything and anything. I'm sure. That's for sure. I'm sure. That's currency in his business. Yes. What made you want to walk down the aisle? Because have you been married before or no? I was married at 19, which was crazy. Ahead of the curve. Well, I was married at 19 because that was the only way you could get out of the house and be okay. But it was a 19-year-old getting married another 19-year-old. What good can come from that? How long did that last? It actually lasted 10 years.
48:42That's pretty good. That's better than I would have thought. Those are 10 prime fucking years, though. They are very prime. But it was also when I had the business and was exploring the fact that I found my creative place. And so it was great.
49:01Jason Stewart:You were in business with your first husband at the time, right? Yeah, he was a student. And he was a Persian student in New York in the just pre the takeover of the Shah. So it was a very, I knew a lot of Persians who were here, some who were pro-Holmeini and some who were pro the Shah. And when they got together, it was crazy time. It was, I understood that there was something very tragic happening. But I couldn't understand the culture that I didn't know. And then all of that happened. So in between the 29 when I was single again to meeting Marty, I definitely wanted not to be married. And I didn't feel that I could run a company and be a good mother.
50:01so I spent a lot of time volunteering with kids in the schools the public schools and so I I was good and felt all of the opportunities I could create with the business were really fantastic and creative and I've been very lucky to have a creative life beautiful as a result But you dated, of course. Yes, but I didn't pick the best. You weren't looking for love, maybe, is what? I might have told myself I was looking for love. But because I wasn't thinking about marriage, I didn't have the right perspective. So I can't say that, yeah.
50:52Jason Stewart:Well, you know, actually, there is a quote in your book that stuck out to me in this same vein. And you mentioned how important it is to fall back in love with love. Yeah. How long after a relationship does it typically take for you to fall back in love with love? Yeah, I mean, that's the most unpredictable thing. falling in love can be described in many ways sometimes it's uh connecting with something that's not healthy for you and the other is connecting with companionship or friendship um so there's so many reasons why we think we're in love um and sometimes the real question is are you with the person you deserve and that's really that line to me a mentor that i've had for many many years said to me are you with the person you deserve and i thought no that's such a mentor thing to say isn't it no way it really is he said hell no this guy's a loser and so i i really, I wondered, how do you get the person you deserve?
52:12Like, how does that happen? But I think being consciously aware of it, that and not allowing, you know, to just to go down that wrong path, it's, it's, it's much better to have that as the picture of what you want.
52:27Jason Stewart:Yeah. And I feel like there's so few men out there who, who deserve to date you just in general, Well, I have to say, Ian is really, we're best friends. And he has been an incredible friend for me, and I hope I've been the same for him. And he knew, he was positive that this guy was the right guy for me. And he was so right. And I feel that he is the person I deserve. And hopefully he feels the same way about me. But the real, the person who saw that first was Ian. That is pretty crazy. That is pretty. What does Marty do for a living? Oh, he's an advisor to people that run countries and that are, he's a very smart man.
53:22So I'm super, super lucky. Shit, okay, damn. I didn't know where that was going to go. I was hoping you were going to say property developer and you went the opposite way. So I'm happy about that. No, and he obviously was advised Ian and still does on a lot of things. So I am very lucky. Well, unless he's offering that advisement you don't want at home. But otherwise, it sounds great. Otherwise, it sounds pretty good.
53:51Jason Stewart:I have some thoughts about how you design your closet space here, Norma. I would advise you to give me some more room, please. um well speaking of uh of fitness i was wondering like you you've been into like natural fabrics and cottons and you know sweatshirt materials you know and we sort of went into the polyester and the synthetic fabrics and we're now starting to come back you know into you know looser cotton wear um so what what like in 2026 what are you wearing to work out in and what are your thoughts on kind of like modern athleisure clothing? Yeah, I think one of the things that really brought fabric back into my attention in from the sort of health wellness area is I love infrared saunas.
54:48I love red light therapy, but I can't always do them totally nude, which is ideal. um so what do you wear if you're if you're wanting to do an infrared sauna or
55:04Jason Stewart:if you're going to put yourself into a microwave what kind of lid are we going to put on what would you want without the waves without the waves yeah you're right we got to cover the cookie somehow what's it going to be so i so i started make some things out of cotton t-shirt fabric so it's really thin like thin shorts and thin thin jog pants and t-shirts and so you can sweat in it and it breathes and it's white and it's cotton and it's really great so it tells you that you need to think about the fabrics you're putting on your body and different things. But I do think that there are so many different fabrications.
55:52A lot of the fabrications that we would like to have for sustainability and for the future are by nature maybe more expensive right now, maybe more complicated because of the different treatments to kind of recycle and do some of these things. So I think the effort now is how to make it accessible and affordable for everyone. But I think the intention generally is to think about sustainability. Is this fabric washable? All of my clothes are washable. No dry cleaning. There's so much information about how dry cleaning is directly correlated to Parkinson's. So why would you want to?
56:46Jason Stewart:I'm glad I've never had a real job where I had to wear a starched shirt. All of our tuxedo wearers get tested for Parkinson's. Or just wash your tuxedo. No, you can't. Shriek it up. Just put it in the machine. I'm going to go put my Tom Ford tuxedo into the tumble dry. You put that in the machine. Do you wash and dry your clothes, though? That's what you do for everything. Just classic wash and dryer. You hand. Well, I use, first of all, I use fabrics that you can wash. And you can wash a lot of fabrics, even fabrics that you don't think. I learned years ago when I started, I used to sell vintage clothes.
57:26And these vintage pieces would be, like, dirty just from age. And so I learned how to wash things in the sink to get everything sparkling clean. And you can do silks and satins and velvets. And so I think that washing, hand washing is so much better. Even if you have a coat, I make these coats out of sleeping bags. and you can take a sponge and wash the coat so that the bacteria doesn't decay the fabric and that you keep the life of your clothes longer if you obviously clean them. But dry cleaning fluid is not good for you, obviously. I kind of know that you know that spiritually, even if you don't have the facts, you know?
58:22Yeah. But there's something about, oh, there's something about taking that shirt off the hanger
58:26Jason Stewart:And that's why you have, it's because you walk in, you give them the stuff and they, it's like a kill room in a, you know, in a factory farm. Like we're going to put your shirt back here. Yeah. You don't want to see what we're going to do to it to get it clean. Well, I mean, Jason, even worse now, a lot of it in New York, it's offsite. They're not even doing, they're sending it somewhere else. Yeah. You're right. Somewhere in Hoboken. But the shirts, I mean, if they're washing and ironing the shirts, that's okay. Yeah. I see what you mean. It's just the actual, look, I worked in dry cleaners and my father's dad owned.
58:59It's unfortunately part of my lineage. It is part of my lineage, but I'm not, I don't feel attacked. I think you're correct. And I side with you. But there's something about dropping off the sweaters, the beginning of the season, getting them back. But I guess that's not, I think what you're talking about specifically is like the machine, right? You're talking, I know what you mean. Okay. That's a little, there's a little nuance. And it's something that everybody has to be aware of. How much of a germaphobe are you? Do you wipe the plane seat down? Well, at a gym, I wipe everything down. That's crazy.
59:33We're past that. I can't. I have to. I'm sorry.
59:36Jason Stewart:I wipe everything down if there's somebody watching me. Only if somebody's waiting on the machine. But even then, I look at them and judge. There's an attractive woman nearby. You want to display that you're a clean guy. If it's a hot college guy, I'm like, you're fine, bro. But if it's an adult woman, I'll clean the machine. I'll give it a ceremonial wipe. If it's somebody who doesn't need to see what the silhouette of your ass cheeks look like on vinyl. I'll do them a favor. And et cetera. All right, but when you get on the Delta flight, you don't bring your own wipes. No, I'm not that. Okay.
1:00:14All right, you're fine. You're fine. That's a little too much. I'm a New Yorker. How can you be a germaphobe? I mean, it's just impossible. Any public anything is just contaminated. So you have to build up your immune system. And so what better way? I would like to think my immune system is rock solid. I think I'm working with a monster when it comes to my immune system.
1:00:38Jason Stewart:Wake up, go outside, lick the sidewalk, grab a cup of coffee, start your day. And that's how you raise kids in New York. You throw them out on the street and you say, go for it. And then that's how they develop it. Be home for supper when the streetlights come on. Mama's going to make some shoulder pads. Oh, actually, speaking of shoulder pads, does anybody do a shoulder pad better than you? Absolutely not. No, no, no. You're the Madonna Confessions 2 of shoulder pads. I own that. completely actually i can't take credit for it because the person who was running my sample room at the time we were doing shoulder pads came up with this brilliant idea to take velcro and put velcro in the garment and velcro on the shoulder pads so you could put it on and maybe size them up depending on how high on coke you are that's right you could stack those shoulder pads medium large kind of thing so the truth is people did stack up the shoulder pads and would have bins and bags of shoulder pads so yes shoulder pads are definitely a part of my heritage that's good i mean for for how well known you are for being the shoulder pad and that person and then learning that you've never done cocaine i don't you know down is up up is down you would you would look you would look at somebody's you know super crazy exaggerated 80s shoulder pad look right and say whoever made that is surely on some of the finest cocaine you could you can enjoy yeah that's why so many people i remember um really nice guy he's always come coming in and buys things and he said i have some i have something for you that i think you're gonna like and i said oh He said, I have some candy from Pakistan.
1:02:35I said, oh, my God, I've never tried candy from Pakistan. Oh, my God, what's it like?
1:02:43Jason Stewart:Sour, sweet, what's the vibe? Oh, my God, sounds amazing. And then he pulls this thing out of his bag, and it's a tinfoil log of some kind. and he starts opening the tin foil and I said, that just looks like candy. You said, brother, that's not going inside of my body. I said, no, no, no, no. So was this like a hashish or like a heroin or? I certainly am not the authority to know, but I know it looked serious and it looked like he. It was big and brown. He had a lot. He had a lot of business coming his way. He looked like he made an investment and he wanted a return on the investment. Well, you found out how he could afford the clothes, at least.
1:03:34You know he's a returning customer if he moves this shit. So that's a positive for you. He actually was a good customer. Yeah, he was very good. But I do, and he did mention, which leads me back to the question, he did mention that looking at me, he thought for sure that I would be interested in the community from Pakistan. That's a powerful, that's powerful. That's powerful.
1:03:58Jason Stewart:And not because you look like you might be Pakistani yourself, but more so like this bitch does drugs. Something I might want, yes. I just thought it was something you might want. Sorry, sue me. Okay, speaking of drugs, how do you feel about the Met Gala, John Galeano situation? Any thoughts? Are you and John friends? I know you have gowns in the Met. So for one, he truly may be in modern times one of the top creative people in the industry. He did make a seriously huge mistake. Under whatever influence or not, it was definitely a bad mistake. You know, to some people, the remorse may not have been enough or too much, whatever it is.
1:04:55It's certainly a hard topic. But it was, I think, very difficult for that topic to reemerge again. And I think that that was tough on everybody. I mean, yeah, I think that it was, you know, you got to make a call, I would say. And I think it was so clear that the call was made after pressure was put on. But the call had to be made. But I don't know where you go from here. I don't know what you do if you're them. I don't know how you, I think you got to take a year off. That's what it feels like to me. I agree.
1:05:33Jason Stewart:I mean, well, what do you think? That's what I'm saying. The Met. Kamali is the theme this year. Kamali is the theme. You're like, I have some ideas. No. You wouldn't be flattered if one year down the road you were there? No, no. I have no interest whatsoever. Well, it might not be up to you. When's the last time you went? It's not what I do. I don't do it. I think the idea of being able to enrich the museum with the amount of money that's made. But I do think it's hard now at a time when there's sort of a, it feels like a let them eat cake kind of approach to what's going on. But the efforts that people like Anna Wintour made through the years to build the American fashion industry can't be appreciated enough.
1:06:35But right now, I think it's a very delicate time and some careful thinking about what we can do for the fashion industry. There are a lot of designers who are beginning their careers who really need support to stay in business. It's a tough time in the industry to stay in business. I think we need to start helping our own and finding a way to support the industry with the same kind of effort. I think the museum is a beautiful platform, but there's a lot of contradictory commentary on what is next. Where do we go next? Yeah, definitely. I mean, no, it definitely does feel like a, I mean, it's like all that stuff.
1:07:33It grows and grows and grows and turns into something maybe that it wasn't intended to turn into. But like you said, the amount of money coming in is going to a good cause, or at least a lot of people think it's a good cause. So it's sort of tough to shit on it when the end result is pretty good. But it does feel like, you know, when it's another actor looking like an idiot, you know, like, what are we celebrating here? You know what I'm saying? but you forget how much money is going to the, you know, I don't think people really know. I think most of the public has no idea that that's even why, why that's happening.
1:08:05Jason Stewart:So basically, you know, if, if, if somebody has no idea what you're talking about, you know, these tens of millions of dollars are being spent to acquire and curate and store these, you know, antiquities of fashion over the years to preserve the, you know, the, the collection of work i think it's um some of that but i and i'm not an expert on it but i think it's to produce the next installation yeah um but and that brings in money i mean you know look a lot of people go see this stuff it's not you know this isn't yeah it's not the slime museum you know but it's doing numbers yeah uh it's doing numbers people are going through the doors you know and paying them But the culture is different now.
1:08:47And I think it's making us think about what the priorities are. That's good for everybody sometimes, no matter what we're talking about. Always. We always got to reassess. Yeah, absolutely.
1:09:00Jason Stewart:Speaking of priorities, Norma, are you one of those people that plans to live forever with or without technological help? I would say in my life, this time period is the most exciting. I think what's coming feels to me like it's going to be more exciting than any experience I've had in my life. So I am very interested in being around long enough to be a part of it. I want to be a part of it. So I'm trying everything I can to figure out how to go the longevity route. And I'm trying to find out about everything. And I think that AI and technology are really very beneficial when it comes to medicine and health care.
1:10:03And I think that there's opportunities for you guys who are in your 40s, you said, and for me to look at how to have a healthier life and how to benefit from some of this technology. so and we are learning more and more and actually paying attention to working out eating the right foods understanding the value of protein all of those things are now so commonly known by 13 year olds and you know and 80 year olds i mean it's so i think that's i think that's really important so what would you guys what what do you think how how how long do you want to live i want to live to 120 shit all right um i don't i don't think i'm touching 120 i'm saying i'm how old are you you said what 81 81 i'm good with that no for me no i'm good with that i'm honestly i'm good with that no i'm good with that norma look we just we just met i've done a lot of damage to my body that i've worked to correct of course but i'm saying i might have i might have kicked the can
1:11:19Jason Stewart:a little too far around the road anyone that's a win baby yeah that's a w for us i'm doing everything i can't look i'm okay well norma is your intention 120 that's 40 years from now that should be enough time for ai technology to be able to fuse your brain and your stem cells into something that whatever yes i like this you'll say all right you're down you're down for i like your you're you're open to it okay okay follow-up question norma i'm open if there was no technological you know advancements going on in the world of longevity where people do believe in our lifetime we will be able to live forever with or without help of of technology if it was just you living on a village somewhere without any access to that would you still want to live to 120 or would you want to maybe, you know, 113, we can kind of call it, you know?
1:12:11Jason Stewart:Tap out at 109. Because the quality of life without the assistance of technology... Yeah, could be tricky. Could be tricky. Could be tricky. I think the health is really key. And if you, you know, if your brain is working and on fire and you want to really be a part of a contribution to something, you have to really be able to contribute. um i don't want to be a dependent on the government on anything anybody but i would like to contribute and i think that that would be the barometer of how i would decide that's a good i think that's a good way to judge it you got a job to do you're gonna you're gonna wake up every morning and go for it do you guys do you i have a question do you guys do you guys see yourselves retiring no oh no ever no i'll die i will die if i retire it's true it's true what else i don't got shit else to do this is it i totally so both of you do you jason you too yeah i'm the same way yeah if i go on vacation and i lay by a pool reading a book after four hours i'm i'm done you know what i mean i know i know i so that's the bottom line is you don't want it to end right As long as you can do what you're doing.
1:13:31And maybe there's a variation of it or another version of it. Yeah, you're right. As long as you're operating at a place you want to be operating, you're right. It's a positive. And you guys do, what, three podcasts a week? That's right. So, I mean, you're cooking. You're really on fire. We are cooking. Thank you. But seriously, right? And think about, you know, the potential of where all of this can go and how the change in the culture can affect what you do next. So I don't think 81. I'm sorry. You have to take that back. 81. No, no, no. All right. Fuck it. All right. Fuck it. I'll hit 96. All right.
1:14:13I'll take your advice. All right. Norma, thank you.
1:14:15Jason Stewart:Wheelchair can't be that bad. Okay. Real last question. Okay. What do you do if creatine makes you bloated? I hate it I hate it
1:14:27I try different versions of it it's not working I don't take it either I can't stand it
1:14:37Jason Stewart:I don't know why I felt compelled to write that question down for you the universe was telling me she has strong opinions and she did and bloating women in our lives might be taking creatine. Yeah, but bloating is not. And that's a women's worst nightmare is a little bloating. So bloating of any kind at any time, not good. Yeah. Yeah, it's the bane of a skinny bitch's existence. But probiotics, really good. And I'm going to recommend one. B-I-S-I-O-M-E Okay. is a probiotic that is fantastic for bloating. Okay. Not specifically, but for everything. It's a high-level, high-quality probiotic. Just sharing.
1:15:25Okay, you don't get a kickback from this, right? You don't get paid. I get nothing. Nothing. I believe you. I believe you. All right, look, thank you for joining us. It's been a pleasure. Oh, nice. This was great. A pleasure. Thank you.
1:15:37Jason Stewart:Thank you. Yeah, and congrats on the book, I Am Invincible, is available on paperback, as Chris said at the beginning of the show. Thank you. But it's a very fun book. It's got workout. It's got quotes. It's got recipes. philosophies. And my favorite part is just personal stories about your life because you've had quite a life. Quite a life. I'm going to hit you about coming to a workout class. I'm going to take you up on that. Totally. I have to. Bring your wife. I will. She works unfortunately, but we'll see what we can do. Okay. We'll figure it out. We'll see you soon. So nice, guys. It was a pleasure.
1:16:08Thank you. Our pleasure. Take care. Bye-bye.
1:16:19And so I'm writing you may find a love you lost Cause now I'm sitting here with the man I sent away long ago
From the publisher
Norma Kamali is a fashion designer from New York. Her book, I Am Invincible, is out now in paperback. We chat with her from her studio about peanut butter sparkling water and piss-filled vinyl, dating Ian Schrager during Studio 54, the rise of fitness coinciding with the fall of dancing, group sweating and pheromones, dating the people you deserve to date, the evolution of activewear and natural fabrics, being anti-dry cleaning, candy from Pakistan, her thoughts on Galliano and the Met Gala, how old she wants to live to, and never retiring being the key to life.
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