In short
Melanie Bender, founder/CEO of Lore, explains how she’s reinventing fragrance by prioritizing emotion (“beauty you feel” over how you look), building a luxury brand with accessible pricing, and scaling distribution through Sephora and influencer seeding.
Guest backgrounds
Melanie is a former aerospace engineer and brand builder behind beauty brands including Merit, Rode, and Versed. She co-founded Lore with two partners, Joe and Greg, previously founders of Youth of the People.
Key claims
Luxury is “obsession” and execution across every touchpoint, not price. Lore’s community is built through decisions that shape day-to-day experience, not crowdsourcing. For retail, it’s “not about getting the doors,” but being ready to perform; they started with 150 Sephora doors and expanded to 250+ quickly. Influencers are the primary marketing channel; seeding must be specific and measurable.
Notable examples
Lore’s “Sublimity” (Sheer Solar Musk) story from Hawaii; fragrance storytelling via mood boards/poetry and digital narrative; influencer niches like interiors/lifestyle and Sephora-adjacent creators.
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Chapters
Tap a time to open that second in VOFrom Aerospace Engineer to Beauty Founder
0:45 to 2:19
Melanie shares her journey from aerospace engineering to founding beauty brands.
“Melanie is here to share what it takes to build a luxury brand from scratch, break through crowded shelves, and trust your instincts, even when the path is anything but ordinary.”
The Importance of Partnerships in Business
2:19 to 4:47
Melanie discusses the value of collaboration and partnership in building her brand.
“and help me build brands that people love, that grow like rocket ships.”
Lessons from Building Successful Brands
4:47 to 6:28
Melanie reflects on lessons learned from her experiences with successful brands.
“I couldn't really envision the situation in which I would find the right people to really make me feel comfortable and safe to put my own IP out there in that way.”
The Shift to Fragrance: A Personal Journey
6:28 to 8:12
Melanie explains her transition to the fragrance industry and its emotional significance.
“This is a brand that was founded by Haley Bieber, scales, sells north of a billion dollars.”
Creating Beauty That You Feel
8:12 to 14:00
Melanie discusses her vision for fragrance and how it relates to emotional wellness.
“Frankly, I was tired of talking about how people look.”
Capturing the Essence of Sublimity
14:00 to 16:00
Learn how Melanie translates personal memories into fragrance.
“And that was what I wanted to spend my time on, products that you put on because of how they make you feel.”
Telling Fragrance Stories Digitally
16:00 to 18:10
Discover the challenges of marketing an invisible product online.
“You're in 250 Sephora doors, which we'll get to in a moment.”
Partnering with Sephora
18:10 to 20:50
Explore the strategic relationship between Melanie's brand and Sephora.
“that this was something very special to do together.”
Navigating Retail Expansion
20:50 to 23:40
Uncover the strategies behind scaling a fragrance brand in retail.
“I'm only thinking about, you know, really making Laura at Sephora the best possible partnership it can be.”
Defining Luxury Beyond Price
23:40 to 26:05
Understand how Melanie conceptualizes luxury in her brand.
“To me, just it's not a part of the brand, the price point.”
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Influencer Marketing and Brand Building
26:05 to 28:00
Learn about the importance of influencers in building a fragrance brand.
“More broadly, how do you go about finding the right creator, the right influencer for the brand?”
Building Community and Seeding Programs
28:00 to 31:03
Learn how to effectively build relationships and engage with communities to promote a new fragrance brand.
“For a brand like mine, the single largest way that people will discover about my brand.”
Melanie's Entrepreneurial Journey
31:04 to 34:32
Explore the entrepreneurial path of Melanie, including her past roles and experiences that led to her founding endeavors.
“You had 15 plus, if I've got that right, about 15 plus jobs before you jump into entrepreneurship.”
Learning from Mistakes in Business
34:33 to 36:09
Understand the importance of patience and learning from past mistakes as key elements of successful entrepreneurship.
“Okay, let me ask you about the other side of this coin.”
Exciting Future for Lore
36:10 to 36:40
Get a sneak peek into upcoming product launches and community engagement plans for Lore.
“Well, I'm excited about it so very much.”
Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00Melanie Bender:That was one of the most interesting challenges. My product is invisible.
0:05What happens when a former aerospace engineer turned brand builder behind beauty giants like Merit, Rode, and Versed decide to reinvent fragrance? Meet Melanie Bender, founder and CEO of Lore, a luxury scent brand built on the radical idea that how you feel matters more than how you look.
0:21Melanie Bender:That was what I wanted to spend my time on. Not beauty that you see, but beauty that you feel. After shaping some of beauty's most beloved names and teaming up with the founders of Youth of the People, Melanie brought together nature, art, and accessibility to launch lore. And in just a few months, the brand has landed in over 250 Sephora stores and in the hands of some top creators. It's not about getting the doors. It's not about getting the retailer. It's about being ready to perform in it. Melanie is here to share what it takes to build a luxury brand from scratch, break through crowded shelves, and trust your instincts, even when the path is anything but ordinary.
0:53I'm Adam Leventer, and this is Shopify Masters, your companion for starting and scaling a business. Melanie, welcome to the show.
1:00Melanie Bender:Hey, Adam. It's so great to be here. Great to be here with you. You are an aerospace engineer first, right before you jumped into entrepreneurship. How does one go from aerospace engineering into founderhood? Yeah, so aerospace engineering was the first of three majors that I went through in college. how someone goes from that to being a beauty founder is a lot of like hand wringing and hair pulling because I think it spoke to just my uncertainty about what I wanted to do in life and maybe to my just like joy and curiosity of so many things. And, you know, I think when you're when you're young and you're starting out and you're making your first decisions for yourself, like what you're going to major in, what your first job is going to be, where you're going to live.
1:45Melanie Bender:You kind of put a lot of pressure on yourself to have it all figured out. And it turns out that I didn't. Instead of having maybe all the answers, I just had a lot of questions. I was interested in what it took to build a rocket. I was interested in how all the systems of the earth work together to make rain and all these things. And I was interested in how brands connect with consumers and help shape identity and beliefs and values. And, you know, over the last, I guess, 20, 20-ish years, I kind of found my way through all of those and ultimately kind of found how they connect together and help me build brands that people love, that grow like rocket ships.
2:28Melanie Bender:Maybe that's how it all works. So you were very early on at Merit. You're very early on at Road. You're very early on at Versed. this chapter of entrepreneurship, does it feel different this time around, given your past experience building brands? You know, yes and no. I know this stage so well. It is my fourth early stage brand, my third that I've been with basically from inception, pre-product, pre-brand, pre-distribution. And I chose to do it four times because I love it so much. At this stage, you know, everything is possible. You're forming your worldview. You're forming your product ethos.
3:07Melanie Bender:You're forming your products themselves. You're choosing who the consumer is and the role that you want to play in their life. And that's something that I kept coming back to just again and again and again of loving that really formative stage, being able to touch every single part of the business and really see it take shape. You know, as founders, my first I'm doing it with a capital F and that does feel different. Different in amazing ways of having the the freedom and the call to make it what I think it should be, to make it the very best version of what I think it should be. But with that also comes the feeling of responsibility, that same responsibility to make it the very best version of what it can be.
3:47Melanie Bender:It's a little bit of both, which is, I guess, why we're here having this conversation. And you have two partners from You to the People. There's three of you on the cap table, is there? I have two co-founders, Joe and Greg, formerly founders of Views of the People. I'm founder. They're incredible in supporting me and my vision, but we do work together very closely on, you know, really all things of how that comes together and how that's executed. I've heard you say that you didn't want to do it alone. I wouldn't have done it alone, period. It's a long journey. It's a long journey, regardless of whether it's your first or fourth time doing it.
4:21Melanie Bender:Maybe because I knew how long it was, it felt clear to me that I wanted community building it. I wanted partnership. I wanted people who could challenge me to be the very best at what I can do and be, but also to help strengthen and fill in areas that I wanted that support. And because I knew that about myself, I honestly didn't necessarily see myself doing a brand. I couldn't really envision the situation in which I would find the right people to really make me feel comfortable and safe to put my own IP out there in that way. And it started with a conversation with the two of them when I let them know that I was leaving Road and very quickly became clear that that was the time and that these are the people.
5:10What was it about Joe and Greg as partners that made sense for you and for Laura?
5:15Melanie Bender:Yeah, you know, I think with them, I just feel this complete creative trust. And it comes from us being very aligned in values. We've each done this for how long, over a dozen years. And I think through that time, we've been able to figure out who are we as brand builders and who are we as leaders. I'm fortunate to have known them for many, many years. We got to know each other when I was building Versed and they were building you to the people. And really just felt, I think, this kind of shared admiration and respect for how we made decisions and how we wanted our brands to show up and to function.
5:53Melanie Bender:And to me, that was kind of rare to people who really just like loved brand building as much as I did, loved the integrity and the creativity and felt that was as important as building a killer P &L. And to me, that was really the joy of finding people who were just as excited to be on this journey, who had incredible experience and knowledge and instincts, but most of all, just that joy of creating and beauty and of being able to do that together. Road was an incredible success story, right? This is a brand that was founded by Haley Bieber, scales, sells north of a billion dollars. Are there lessons from that particular experience that you find valuable today as you continue to build on Lore?
6:44Melanie Bender:Yeah, I mean, there's been incredible lessons from all the brands that I've done, which I feel so fortunate for. Very different lessons, you know, and each of the brands was very different in terms of not just identity, but strategy. And one of the things that I really took away from Rode is that Haley, she ran it like a fashion brand. To her, the only things that mattered were product and brand, creating things that she loved and was proud of that excited her and that she knew that the consumer would be excited and proud of. And that was it. She didn't stress about growth. She didn't stress about trying to, you know, kind of hit a certain ramp.
7:22Melanie Bender:In that way, it wasn't a P &L forward business in the way that ones I had done in the past. And to me, that really resonated, this hyper fixation on what are we actually making? What are we actually contributing? And that being the thing, that being enough. How much do you think about P &L versus the vision for the brand itself? and to your point, what you're actually building? Yeah, I mean, some days more than others. The P &L, it's the how, right? It can't be the why. But the P &L is really critical for you understanding the path to getting to do these amazing things that define the brand. But with Lore, it very much started by building something I love, building something that I thought should exist and doing it in a very open and undefined way.
8:11Melanie Bender:Very early on, I figured I wanted it to be fragrance. Frankly, I was tired of talking about how people look. After doing two skincare brands and one cosmetic brand, I knew that there was something deeper than that, something deeper that I wanted to spend my time thinking about and that I wanted to bring into the world. and that led me to fragrance so that I knew. But beyond that, I really let it be an open exploration. And it started with, you know, understanding first the science of fragrance, which was really fun, very aerospace engineering me. And then thinking about really what I wanted this world of the brand to be.
8:49Melanie Bender:It started kind of world first beliefs and codes. and from their product flowed in a very iterative way. Okay, let's double click on that. So world first, beliefs and codes. What does that mean in the context of, say, community building? It's interesting. They're kind of different ends of the continuity of a brand. All the brands I've done, you know, I've really believed in doing it world first. your world as a brand is, it's basically how you see, how you see reality. It's, it's what you hold to be true. I like starting there because I think that's what consumers are actually loving. That's what they actually buy.
9:30Melanie Bender:They, they buy into brands that have a different conception of reality that show them a different way of looking at the world, a different way of living within it. And to me, that's beautiful. That's compelling. That's cultural. Those are the brands that I like making. So I started first by really just kind of immersing myself, letting me imagine this world that I thought should exist, you know, kind of exploring what different ends of that could be. And then once I had that image, that idea, it was about articulating, kind of explaining, this is what it is, and this is why it is this way. Those were our beliefs and codes.
10:06Melanie Bender:And then everything really flowed from there. And community, I would also say that we're We're brand with community at our core, but I don't believe in being crowdsourced. So it wasn't about, you know, kind of going to a group of people and them telling us what it should be. I think it's more about really how you want to contribute to people's day-to-day lives, what role you want to play in it. And then making that a point of decision as you go through the brand, as you go through your packaging, the design of your fragrances, your price point. To me, that's where community comes to mind. So let's talk about storytelling.
10:41How do you actually create a story behind a brand? You've done such a good job with these fragrances and the brand itself. How do you think about storytelling?
10:50Melanie Bender:I think about it very openly. And there's a deep story behind lore. There's a deep story behind each of our fragrances. And I think the key there was just letting the stories form whatever way was natural. Like I said, one of them subliminates the story of growing up in Hawaii. Lovely and a little twisted. It started really as a mood board. It's this world of Versailles, but Versailles stuck through the looking glass. And by first understanding that visually, I was able to understand more about kind of the story of the scent. So my process is really just exploring it through all different ways in.
11:23Melanie Bender:I love a Pinterest board. I love writing poetry and words. I love writing narratives and just kind of playing with it all, seeing what sticks. I'm big on bringing people into it to give feedback when ready. That's where my co-founders are tremendous. I kind of just love to throw things at them, which perks them up, which makes them excited. It's not always what I think it's going to be. And I think that's the beauty of story. It's not just what does it mean to you, but how does it connect with other people? And I think we all have the ability to be storytellers and just have to let it explore and flow naturally a little bit.
11:59Why fragrance? So it feels like you've got this background in skincare and makeup. You learn a lot there. You jump into this category that feels somewhat associated to that world, but isn't. It also seems to me that fragrance is hyper-competitive. Did you see it that way? Was there a part of the market that you thought was untapped?
12:19Melanie Bender:Adam, I was so tired of talking about moisturizer. The world does not need a concealer from me. It does not. And I think what drew me to fragrance was that it was new. It was definitely net new to me. and it's hyper competitive in the sense that it's growing really quickly. It's changing. And I've always been attracted to, you know, kind of categories of dynamism, areas that are changing, because I think anytime it's changing, that means that there's possibility here. There's things that are going to rise and things that are going to fall. To me, those are the most exciting categories to create.
12:52Melanie Bender:And that's what skincare was kind of 10 years ago. And it's what fragrance is today. So that was, you know, more of the, let's say, analytical reason for going into it, believing in the growth, believing in, you know, kind of a shortage of brands that had the playbook of best practices that I had from the brands that I had done. But as equally, if not more so important, was the emotional side. And I thought about my life and, you know, the eight plus hours a day that I spend on screens, that you probably spend on screens, that everyone listening probably spends on screens. And that's this like really weird alternate reality that's hyper visual.
13:26Melanie Bender:There's, you know, a lot of seeing to it. There's maybe a little bit of sound. There's no smell. There's no touch. And I think it contributes a lot to this feeling of detachment. We don't feel like we belong. We don't feel like we live full lives. And to me, as I thought about fragrance and understood the science of fragrance and how it fires in our brains and the strength of the emotional response that it brings, it all felt like this very beautiful potential to create products that bring back some of that feeling, that bring back some of the depth, that create beauty, not beauty that you see, but beauty that you feel.
14:01Melanie Bender:And that was what I wanted to spend my time on, products that you put on because of how they make you feel. Perfect segue. You brought some today, Melanie. Let's go through some of these. Let's take a look. Yeah. All right. First, we'll talk about Sublimity. This is our Sheer Solar Musk. It is the very first scent that I started working on. It's the scent of growing up in Hawaii, where I'm from. It was a feeling that I had always wanted to go back to that you never can. And I thought, okay, I'll share it with the world in fragrance form. Sublimity, it's the story of all piling into the back of a truck on the weekends because the best beaches in Hawaii, you need four-wheel drive to get to.
14:38Melanie Bender:Yeah, there are the beaches, your playground, and your palace. You know you're going to be there all day. Maybe you have like a cooler full of cold drinks in there with you. In Hawaii, the white florals, the pua kini kini, the ling ling, they go right up to the sand and they fragrance the air there with this like warmth, sweetness. And when you get to the beach, you know, maybe the sun is so hot on your skin that it starts to scream at you after a couple minutes. So you dive into the water and sublimity is that very first wave that you go under. And if you've ever been inside a wave, if you look out the back, maybe you'll see the sun, maybe you'll see the horizon.
15:14Melanie Bender:And there's this most incredible sensation that inside a wave time stands still that each little drop of water, It's just moving one at a time. And that's the moment of sublimity. That's what I wanted to capture with this fragrance, which is the solar fragrance. So there's warmth to it. There's coconut nectar. There's lang-lang blossom. There's a little bit of sandalwood. There's also a little bit of marine musk. But to me, most of all, it smells like full sun on warm skin on the beach in Hawaii. I got to get a smell. Yeah, please. You've sold me. You tell the story in such a compelling way. I mean, I'm sold on it.
15:48But how do you do this digitally? Like this is such a tactical experience. We're smelling something here. We're together in person. Yeah. You're building this brand online. Yes, you're in retail. You're in 250 Sephora doors, which we'll get to in a moment. But when you're building a fragrance brand, how do you tell that story digitally?
16:10Melanie Bender:Totally. I mean, that was one of the most interesting challenges. My product is invisible. I'm choosing to sell them visual product through largely, you know, kind of visual mediums. And that's to me where the focus on feeling comes through that we choose scents because how they make us feel. We choose most things in our life because of how they make us feel. And there are certainly, you know, kind of literal ways to speak to scent, descriptive ways. But to me, it was more about kind of inviting different ways to tell the story. And to me, sublimity is the scent of growing up in Hawaii. But to someone else, I have people who say, okay, this reminds me of this one vacation that I took, the last vacation that I took with my parents.
16:51Melanie Bender:Or, you know, to me, it's this place in Mexico that we'd go every year. What was exciting about fragrance was not just telling my stories through it, but really using it as this kind of open call for sharing stories in general. and that's to me also part of the strategy because fragrance is so kind of person to person it is very personal it's interpreted differently it means something differently and I was really interested in not just being kind of descriptive and literal but also letting people discover scents and fragrances by stories that they share so how does Sephora come across lore yeah I mean we were very, very fortunate to have existing relationships with Sephora from my co-founders, whose first brands used to be people.
17:37Melanie Bender:It's still exclusive to Sephora. You know, I think we all knew early on that we wanted to build this brand, not just with a retailer, but with that retailer, with Sephora. Truly the best brand builders in beauty. They understand what it takes to build something from scratch to shift categories. And they have an incredible vision and fragrance and a lot of, you know, potential to continue growing that. So it made us all very excited to bring it to them. As soon as we got in the room, I think within 10 minutes in, it was very clear that this was something very special to do together. And the decision was easy.
18:17How does it scale so fast across the Sephora retail network? I mean, it's a relatively young business. All of a sudden, you're in 250 locations. How does that happen from a CapEx perspective, let's say?
18:34Melanie Bender:I think the decision to go into retail period, but also what's the right footprint to start with is a big one. Sephora has over 600 standalone doors in the US. So So while 250 doors is a lot of them, it's, it's for them, it would be partial chain. We had a lot of conversation together with them as to what was the right number to start with. We started in 150. That's one of the, the real lessons that, um, that I had from being in beauty and just consumer goods as long as I have, that it's not about getting the doors. It's not about getting the retailer. It's about being ready to perform in it. And it's very easy to push to be full chain.
19:09Melanie Bender:It's very easy to push for, you know, the most doors that you can get. Um, but what's more important is that you're in the right doors for where you're at right now. I am not a celebrity. I did not launch with a big audience. So I knew that it was very much building the brand through the brand. And for that reason, it was right to start what would be smaller in terms of door count, starting in 150 doors to build and grow from there. Very fortunate to be expanding now into 250, but it's all very based on kind of what feels like the right pace to go at for how I want to build the brand. With everything lore, it's about what feels right.
19:46Melanie Bender:It's about what's the, you know, kind of what supports the vision in the long term. You know, kind of CapEx-wise, it's different in every retailer, in every category. As a new brand of fragrance, we're fortunate that there's not the big kind of gondola build-outs that you would have in makeup, but there's certainly investments that go into it. And that's also a reason to think about starting small, you know, and really understanding what does it take to work in these doors so that as you're going from, if it's$150 to$250, or, you know, I've had past brands that are in$7 ,000. It's all about really being ready to make those doors successful for you and your partners.
20:25Do they ask for exclusivity off the bat in a partnership like this?
20:29Melanie Bender:It's very common for any new brand launching in a retailer for exclusivity to be part of the discussion. It's something that I was very comfortable and even excited to bring to Sephora. I'm a big believer in do one thing exceptionally and only expand from there. So I am not at all thinking about other places to go. I'm only thinking about, you know, really making Laura at Sephora the best possible partnership it can be. So Imaginary Ventures gets involved in the business at some point. They do a seed round with you guys. What has that experience been like with them? And do you find that they're the perfect partner?
21:09for Lore.
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21:10Melanie Bender:Yeah, I mean, they're tremendous. I was very fortunate to have gotten to know them over many, many years in beauty. And between the three of us in the founder group, we were very fortunate to know many VCs in beauty quite well. And I think that's one of the greatest advantages that we have. We have the clarity of what we want. We have the clarity of what's a good fit, what's not, even, you know, kind of what are the important things to ask for and to have as part of the partnership. They've been incredible. And from the very first conversation, to me, it was clear that, all right, this is again, like same feeling with Sephora.
21:44Melanie Bender:This is special. This is how I want to do this. This is the right, the right way to build something that I want to be generational, that I want to be the brand that people are talking about, you know, not two years from now, but 20 years from now. And that's very much how they think and how they operate. I also really liked how deep their experience is in luxury fashion. To me, Lore is the luxury brand. And a lot of the way that I think about building the brand is cued by luxury fashion. And I loved that they brought that experience and thought partnership while having a really intimate understanding of beauty as well.
22:21You have mentioned this idea of price point being almost like a middle finger to the industry. And I'm asking you this question in the context of creating a luxury brand, which I think most people would associate luxury with sort of higher price point, but no, in Laura's case, it hasn't been that way. What's the strategy behind how you're pricing the product?
22:46Melanie Bender:I have said that and do feel that way, that our price point is intended as, you know, kind of a middle finger to the norms. I think in the past, there's been maybe two paths that you take, right? You choose to be a luxury brand and you use price point as a signal of value because it's one of the clearest ones that people interpret, or you choose to be low disruptively priced and that becomes your brand. And, you know, to me, neither of those fit what I wanted to do. I wanted to make something that was beautiful, that was emotional, that moved people, but I wanted to do it in a way that you can't, you know, it's not just by one cent, like by all four, you know, build a wardrobe.
23:21Melanie Bender:To me, it's always been about creating this kind of wardrobe of new realities that you can slip in then slip out of like you would an amazing jacket. And the reality is that you can't, you can't do that when it's$2.50 a bottle or$3.75 a bottle. It was very core to the ethos and the mission of what I wanted to do. To me, just it's not a part of the brand, the price point. I have zero interest in talking about price point to the consumer. It's not a selling point. The price point is what it is. I want people to be talking about how beautiful the fragrances are, what they mean to them, what they mean to other people in their life.
24:01Melanie Bender:To me, that's the conversation. So that's, I think, the strategy and the takeaway that, you know, price point is not a brand. I think it's very easy to look at these kind of tactical levers. You're in this price point or you're in this category and think that that's a brand, but that's not a brand. That's merely one way that it kind of is interpreted by the customers, one way it shows up. What are the other pillars of creating a luxury brand if it's not price? So if founders are watching and they're saying, I completely resonate with what Melanie is saying, I have this vision for a brand. I want it to be luxurious, but it's going to be priced affordably so that the majority of consumers can access it or afford it.
24:47How does one do that? And how do you think about luxury in these other areas?
24:52Melanie Bender:I think there's one pillar at Lore and that's obsession. And to me, that's what luxury is. There is this pull and even a compulsion to make every single thing that you do the very best version of itself. The bottle, I went through 50 forms before, you know, kind of landing on this shape. I made two trips to Peru to perfect the glass mold and really understand exactly how glass would be, you know, kind of coming through as it's melting and being formed. I explored maybe 150 colors, probably 100 different fragrances. To me, it's those details of care and, yes, of obsession that are the hallmark of a luxury brand.
25:39Melanie Bender:It's not just one thing, it's everything. And I think those are the things that are very hard to mimic. Those are the things that are very hard for incubators to be able to develop out of a box. But that's what luxury is. It's this obsession and commitment to an emotion and having that emotion carried through every single touchpoint of the experience. Let's talk about marketing for a sec. So Lore does a lot with influencers. You do a lot with creators. More broadly, how do you go about finding the right creator, the right influencer for the brand? Yeah, I mean, I think brands today are built by influencers, just period.
26:19Melanie Bender:It's the single most important channel. And it was the first thing that I thought about in terms of the marketing strategy for Lore. You know, I think the strongest influencer programs are built on just organic fandom, on people loving what you're doing. So first and foremost, it was that intention and love in the product and the brand to make it something that, all right, you see it once, you want to talk about it, you want to share it, you want to take a picture, you want to be the person that told your friends about it or, you know, kind of was the first to get the package in the mail. To me, that's the heart of the influencer flybills that you need to be building.
26:58Melanie Bender:And those are built through a lot of fucking hard work. Seating and organic influencer relationships are single biggest line item in our budget. It's the single biggest team within the company because it takes a lot of time and intention to be able to bring the right people in. So seeding, like sending product to particular people in hopes that they share, that they create content, whatever. Yeah. To me, that's the bread and butter of early stage influencer programs. So you're building an experience that brings people into your brand that's built around the product, but gives them something that, you know, they wouldn't get if they were just walking into a Sephora store.
27:37Melanie Bender:And then you're really understanding who are not just the influencers of your consumer, but the influencers of the influencers of your consumer to really show up in the right places. One of the biggest mistakes that early stage brands make are not being specific enough about who's the right creator for them or not being goal-driven enough about what you need to get out of an influencer program for it to pay off. For a brand like mine, the single largest way that people will discover about my brand. So it is really meaningful who's talking about it and how they're talking about it. So understanding the communities that you want to show up in and how you think you contribute to them is really, really important.
28:18Melanie Bender:For us, you know, definitely fragrance community is huge. But we also thought about the interiors and lifestyle community. You know, we designed this bottle to be like an object of art. So we wanted people like Athena Calderon talking about it. We wanted beauty creators who were impactful to the Sephora consumer, but maybe not yet fragrance people. We wanted them talking about us as well, positioning us as kind of this gateway fragrance brand. Maybe you're not wearing Eau de Parfum every day. Well, with this brand, you know, you can. So those are some of the different community niches that we thought about.
28:54And then, you know, on the goal side, building a seating program is a beast.
28:59Melanie Bender:I've done it a couple of times now, so I know what goes into it. But you're really putting a significant amount of time, of resources, of budget towards these seating boxes. So also really understanding, here's what we need to get out of it. Here's how we measure success, the earned impressions, the earned media value, the earned engagements, for it to be able to make sense and become that engine that you want it to be. How much should one set aside if they were a lean startup, not venture-backed, and want to create their version of a seeding program? What do you think would be an appropriate budget to set aside to test something like this?
29:43Melanie Bender:Yeah, you know, I think it can be done at any scale, but I think you also want to think about what will really position you to break through. We were fortunate to have a founding team from well-known brands. So it was a possibility. It made it possible for us to be able to approach influencers pre-launch and have them be excited to support the brand. I think if you're, you know, if you are newer as a founder, you might not have that same opportunity. So starting to build your organic influencer community in other ways, I think is even more impactful. Even just reaching out to folks, getting their feedback on your product, I think is a wonderful way to start.
30:28Melanie Bender:It's actually how we started. Before we had even finalized our brand, I had invited a number of fragrance influencers to give me their feedback on it and wanted their expert input in what we were developing, but also just wanted to be building relationships and fragrance. So I think if you're kind of starting from scratch, it's a really nice way to do it so that then when you're starting to seed people and be ready to send product out, it's coming from a little bit more of a warmer place and will be more likely to be shared and can grow from there. Let's go back to pre-Lore Melanie and your career over the past 20 years.
31:10You had 15 plus, if I've got that right, about 15 plus jobs before you jump into entrepreneurship. Do you look back on your career and think there was a particular turning point that led you into founding something into this world of entrepreneurship? Was there a particular moment or chapter of your career that inspired this?
31:37Melanie Bender:You know, honestly, no. But while this is my first time as a founder with a capital F, so much of what I did was very entrepreneurial. When I was 24, I co-founded my first company, which was in the marketing space. And that arose, you know, as I was leaving sustainability consulting. I was in New York, had just moved from Holi to New York. At the time I was working as an environmental planner and really just felt no creativity in that. Missed being able to feel that nice mix of left brain, right brain. Decided to leave that field and really started from the ground up. First with an unpaid internship, then got my foot in the door with a marketing agency.
32:24Melanie Bender:It was a marketing agency that worked in the field of architecture and design. So not fashion, not beauty, but to me, it felt adjacent and took that role. And after maybe six months of being with that company, I pitched the CEO on launching a fashion vertical. Told him, here's all the ways it's relevant. I'll run it for you. And amazingly, very fortunately, he said, okay, come back with the business plan and we'll talk about it. And I did and we did. And he supported me on it. And I think that was kind of a common pattern with me that I saw that I couldn't get the jobs today that I wanted. I didn't have the right background.
33:03Melanie Bender:I was a kid from whole A in New York without the right degree, without any connections. So I had to kind of be realistic about where I could start. But I also knew that where I started wasn't where I was going to end. And so I would really excel at the job at paper, but also think on what else could it be? Where do my goals align with the goals of, you know, the people who I'm working for? And how do I use that to take me a little bit closer to what I want to do? So I did that when I was in the marketing space. I did that again to launch first. I was hired by Catherine Power to run marketing for her media platforms for Who What Wear and Birdie and My Domain.
33:47Melanie Bender:A few months on the job, I learned that she was interested in launching beauty brands. And I had worked in beauty at a contract manufacturer before then on brand development. And I remember writing that into my job description that, okay, now I'm going to do beauty brand development at Click. You're not going to pay me more, but here's my new title. And I did that, you know, in addition to the other role that I was hired to do. By doing that, it led me to Versed. I developed Versed and then she gave me the opportunity to run it first as general manager and then as president. So no, like no big aha moments.
34:28Melanie Bender:I would say just a lot of tenacity and desire to kind of shoot my shot. Sure. And see what can happen. Okay, let me ask you about the other side of this coin. So mistakes and challenges. Was there a mistake that you made looking back that has helped you grow into the founder that you are today? Oh my God, so many mistakes. Which ones helped me grow? I mean, a lot, like definitely, maybe cringe. You want to talk about those, but no mistakes that made me grow, you know, definitely what feels most relevant to lore are the mistakes and learnings from the beauty brands that I did before then. And, you know, I think earlier on in my career running beauty brands, I wanted to go fast.
35:11Melanie Bender:I wanted to go big. I wanted to go as big as I could. That felt like the right onus at the time, you know, to drive growth and, you know, kind of deliver a chart that goes up and to the right more quickly than any others. And, you know, as I have been through growth cycles a little bit more and understood the ups and downs, you know, I really feel differently about it now. I feel very much feel like the growth that I want to optimize for is the growth decades from now. And I've seen enough brands go up and go down to know that, you know, a fast up doesn't keep you there. So maybe the biggest learning is patience, because doing things the right way in a way that actually creates long-term enterprise value, it takes time, it takes diligence, it takes knowing the right moments to lean in, but it takes also acceptance when it's not the time to lean in, when it's the time to go a little bit more slowly and kind of just do that whole dance.
36:06Melanie, it's been great to chat with you today. What are you excited about this year for Laura? What can we look forward to?
36:11Melanie Bender:Oh my gosh. Well, I'm excited about it so very much. We're launching our first new fragrance since we came out. It's my very favorite to wear. It's coming in July. And I'm just so, so excited for that. I'm excited to do more with our community, to actually do more in the real world. And I'm just excited to maybe savor it all, most of all. It's amazing to talk to you today. Thanks so much. Thanks, Adam. And thank you so much for tuning in. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode. And I'll catch you next time. It's all preaching!
From the publisher
Melanie Bender spent years building some of skin care’s most coveted brands before betting her next chapter on fragrance—a category she saw on the verge of its biggest moment yet. By leading with story over specs and making influencer relationships the heart of her strategy, she took Lore from concept to 250 Sephora doors almost overnight.
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