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Podcast Summary: The Burnouts with Phoebe & Sophia
Episode Title
How Sophia Amoruso Turned a Side Hustle Into a $350M Brand (Nasty Gal)
Episode Description
In this episode, Sophia Amoruso, the founder of Nasty Gal, shares her journey of building a $350 million fashion empire from her bedroom, facing multiple challenges including bankruptcy, and her evolution into a leader who prioritizes empathy. The conversation touches on her experiences with the "Girlboss" movement, the lessons learned from failure, and her new venture fund, Trust Fund.
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Key Topics Discussed
- Early Beginnings and Transition to Nasty Gal
- Initial Work: Sophia started working in the lobby of an art school for health insurance and found time to sell thrifted clothes on eBay.
- Launching Nasty Gal: She launched Nasty Gal Vintage after realizing the profitability of thrifted items.
- Growth: Within a few years, Nasty Gal generated significant revenue, leading to a full-time business model.
- Building the Brand
- First Hires: Her first employee was hired via Craigslist, demonstrating the scrappy approach she maintained initially.
- Growth Strategies: Sophia capitalized on trends, understanding her customer base, and utilizing organic marketing through word of mouth.
- Milestones and Challenges
- Venture Capital: Sophia raised venture capital in 2012, reaching a valuation of $350 million, but faced challenges scaling the company.
- Downfall and Bankruptcy: The company faced bankruptcy due to management decisions and scaling too quickly. Sophia stepped down as CEO before the downturn.
- Lessons Learned
- Empathy in Leadership: Sophia emphasized the importance of leading with empathy and the need for proper coaching for employees.
- Advice on Entrepreneurship: She warned against the glamorization of seeking venture capital, suggesting entrepreneurs focus on building sustainable businesses.
- Personal Growth and Evolution
- Post-Nasty Gal Ventures: After leaving Nasty Gal, she developed the "Girlboss" brand and later established a venture fund, Trust Fund.
- Moving to London: Sophia relocated to London, embracing a new lifestyle and work environment focusing on impact and flexibility.
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Key Takeaways
- Empathy in Leadership: It's crucial for founders to lead with understanding and accountability.
- The Reality of Entrepreneurship: Many entrepreneurs do not need venture capital; building a business can be achieved through scrappy methods and understanding market needs.
- Personal Reflections: Sophia’s journey highlights the importance of resilience, adaptability, and the ability to pivot after setbacks.
- Navigating Relationships: Balancing career ambitions with personal relationships requires understanding and communication; not everyone will understand the demands of entrepreneurship.
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Conclusion Sophia Amoruso's candid conversation with Phoebe Gates and Sophia Kianni in this episode of *The Burnouts* illustrates the complexities of entrepreneurship, the challenges faced in scaling a business, and the importance of self-awareness and empathy in leadership. The journey from building a successful brand to redefining one's purpose in the entrepreneurial landscape offers valuable insights for aspiring founders and young professionals.
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Transcript
Automatic transcript. May contain errors.0:00We are in a world where really anybody can start a business. Our guest today is Sophia Maruso, the powerhouse who built Nasty Gal from a thrift store side hustle into a$100 million global sensation and kicked off the hashtag girlboss movement. She's a bestselling author, a Netflix inspiration, and now she's empowering and investing in the next wave of founders with her platform business class. I'm Sophia Maruso. Welcome to The Vernotes. I want to dive right into you being an eBay seller. How did that start and how did that transition into becoming, you know, the hundreds of millions of dollars brand that you built with Nasty Gal?
0:33Well, it took 10 years. I was 22 and I was like working in the lobby of an art school. You know, I wasn't in college. I wanted to go to art school and I got into the San Francisco Art Institute in North Beach, which was an incredible art school. And then CCA in Oakland, which is an awesome art school. But it was like 50 grand a year. And I was like, I didn't have any credit. Parents didn't have like 50 grand a year. So I ended up not going and I worked in the lobby of an art school not because I wanted to work in the lobby of an art school But because I needed health insurance and I worked there for three months and during that time I had all this time to kill on ebay and myspace really And I was like getting friend requests on myspace from ebay sellers who were selling vintage and trying to like promote their business Just like an instagram account might try to follow, you know You and be like hey pay attention to me or whatever And I clicked through and I saw what their auctions were going for because they were starting the bids at like$9.99.
1:26And it could very well have sold for$9.99. But these girls like auctions were going for like hundreds of dollars. And to me, it was like, I know where to find this stuff for like eight bucks. I spent enough time in thrift stores like I loved vintage. So I was like, quit my lobby job. And I launched an eBay store called Nasty Gal Vintage. Not everything worked at first. You know, I wasn't like, I'm going to be an entrepreneur. I was like 22 and just like, oh, I like don't want to work for anyone else. I'm actually not capable of it. Maybe I can like not work. And then, you know, fast forward, I'm like a CEO and like the cover of magazines and stuff, which like, you know, is still just kind of wild to me.
2:07But, you know, bootstrapped it because I mean, I didn't know what venture capital was. And I wasn't like, I'm going to build a company that does 100 million dollars in revenue. Like I would never even had goals like that. cool maybe I can like work for myself and I was like you know I remember like checking auctions on my Blackberry Pearl holy shit these auctions are like going so high so after a little while I like figured out what worked built my own brand reverse engineered what had worked for other people but didn't do the same thing was really resourceful about like sourcing vintage and somehow really good at like copywriting and good enough at photography and good enough at a lot of things just kept going and year one I think it was like 75k in revenue which I was like I just kept the money in the company.
2:49I didn't like want things. I was like 22 and too busy like having fun with my head down being like oh my god this is crazy something's working and then year two was like 250k. Wow. And then it was 1.1 and then 1.1 still through eBay fully? No I left eBay like mid-2008 so I started it in late 2006. Left eBay mid-2008 and then launched my own website and it sold out day one. And were you still selling vintage or did you start selling something else when I launched it it was just vintage and then I was like oh shit I need to buy depth and went to my first trade show in Vegas called magic and at that point had spent so much time understanding what my customer wanted which was like MVP you know you could call it like oh wow I just sold I did something that didn't scale I took photos of one thing and I measured it and I wrote a description and I you know and to be able to buy six and smalls and mediums and enlarges and have things that like I could take a photo and sell you know multiple items of I was able to really scale the business being able to curate other brands and eventually we had a design team and we had our own brand and then venture capital came in I think in 2012 when we were doing about 30 million in revenue and I had like bootstrapped it and owned 100 % of it and the first money in was out of a growth fund and they said the company was worth 350 million dollars so five years in it's so interesting because two percent of vc capital goes towards solely female founded businesses it's ridiculous and it's about 12 that goes to businesses that have like a male and female co-founder which i think is just a huge crime but then also a huge opportunity within the market to build different things and to try different things that actually serve this customer in a lot of ways our target consumer that we're looking at is very similar for fia we're looking at a girl who's obsessed with shopping she wants to get the best deal she wants to have the hottest dress for summer.
4:37I think it's really interesting because talking about really getting to know your customer, people talk a lot about product market fit, but not founder market fit. And you had that because you knew, okay, what's hot, what's cool. I wanna go back to the beginning of the business when you transition off of eBay and you start doing your own sales. Who's your first hire and how do you pick that person? My first hire I found on Craigslist. Stop, you found your first hire on Craigslist? I don't even remember LinkedIn being a thing. And I was just looking for a girl who like worked at a shop, you know, someone to ship stuff.
5:08Yeah, what did you want them to do? I was like the things that I don't have to do. Yeah, yeah. And I still had to buy. I still had to style and, you know, photograph everything, like all the creative stuff. But like steam clothes, write product descriptions. But even then it was like I was very specific about how I wanted things done. I didn't know what a standard operating procedure was, but I like trained her, like call it glitter, not sparkles. so yeah customer service shipping you know ordering any kind of supplies we needed steaming stuff so and her name was Christina and she had worked on a store on hate street um and she actually knew about the trade show that I went to and she was the person who told me about it and I remember I was like I committed to a full-time job for someone and I I wasn't even paying I was paying her more than I had made and I think it was like 16 an hour like I was paying her more than I was paying myself and I was like oh my god this is so scary like what if it doesn't work out like somebody's livelihood is on the line and like little did I know that that was like you know the first of hundreds of people that I would end up employing and livelihoods that I would be somehow responsible for.
6:14And how much money did you start making before you made the decision of it's the right time to bring on someone? It was like probably 250k that year or something it was just basically when things were breaking, when I couldn't keep up with customers. It was like, you know, I think, you know, the company was just exploding and I couldn't keep up with the demand. And that was, that's like, I think the best time to hire people rather than like hope it works out and hire people ahead of it working out because, you know, it's like, that can be very expensive. I think it's so important to stay as lean and scrappy as possible in the beginning, because you need to learn everything yourself.
6:51I feel like if we were in a position where we had extra resources then a lot of stuff that we ended up doing we would have delegated and i think it's such a valuable skill to really know your business in and out so that if people are taking things on and they're floundering or they're confused you can step in and actually coach them building up your own skill set makes you more valuable as a founder as an employee whatever it might be being scrappy prevents you from getting into situations where you have a bunch of money and you end up deploying it in ways that are inefficient just because you have a true understanding of like what is it that the business needs obviously it's unfortunate and stressful when things start to break but it's better than things not working and then being stuck with a bunch of people who have no idea what to do with their time i also think you guys are building software there's a speed there's speed's really important you have engineers you're never going to know what the engineers know so building ahead of that or having people i mean it's just what i was hiring for it was like a bootstrap business it was someone to do really basic stuff so if there were things that from day one had to happen that I didn't know how to do.
7:54I wouldn't have had the capital to do. But if you do and you're building, I think, a technology company, it can be like very different. I mean, there's a reason why a lot of software companies are started by engineers, you know? I mean, I find it so interesting because I love what you said about you had these very specific inclinations where you really understood your customer to say, call it like glitter, not sparkles, et cetera, because you actually knew it was resonating. And something I wanted to walk back to that I'm curious about that when I was reading about you, I thought was really interesting is that you worked a series of like different odd jobs and you were doing a lot of things before you ended up starting Nasty Gal.
8:27And correct me if I'm wrong, I thought I saw like a viral Instagram reel where you said I used to be a stripper, which I was like, that is so cool. I mean, I'd love to just better understand you as a person and the things you did before you started Nasty Gal. Do you think there were specific jobs or specific things that you did early in your career that kind of helped you become an entrepreneur and taught you things? I think so. I think I tried to cut corners and I think that just doesn't work. Like long-term, it just doesn't work. For me, you know, my idea of like a perfect job was how little can I do for as much money as possible?
9:01Can I just sit here and do, why would I work harder if they're not going to pay me more? There is like a theme of that. There's like the lazy girl, whatever, which is cute when you're 20, good luck when you're 30 kind of a thing or like that just is not going to scale at some point unless you become like a trad wife or whatever just doing things that didn't work there were things like I worked in a bookstore and they taught me you know take someone over to the whatever non-fiction section instead of point basic customer service stuff that I think I ended up applying to the business even though it was a digital business that really helped me yeah I was a stripper for a few months in Portland and honestly like nobody fucked with me it was just fun.
9:39I got to like dance to music that I liked. And I was the person like a few years prior who was like, Oh my God, don't look at me. Like if I was like making out with somebody, I was like, Oh, I'm going to like get up in the dark and go to the bathroom or something. I was just like not comfortable with my body. And it was kind of like exposure therapy in a way where I was like, also again, I was like doing, it wasn't as little as possible because it was actually work, but it was just like fun. I didn't like really engage with anybody there. It was just like danced and like went and had a white Russian in the back room and then did it again or whatever it made me really comfortable with my body in a way that I'm super grateful for because I think that's something that can take a long time for people I saw this viral tweet yesterday I spent like or x or whatever I spend way too much time on it but it was basically saying this stripper taught me more about sales than anyone I've ever met in my entire life and it was talking about like building an emotional connection with someone and understanding like the levers to pull to really make someone trust you and he was saying how he learned it all from a stripper and he learned more than any sales coach he had ever talked to in his life and I just thought it was so funny but also really interesting because I think it's so unexpected the things you end up doing in your life that end up teaching you so much and I feel like especially for you you had such an untraditional trajectory that I'm kind of curious like if you were to peel back the layers and especially give people advice like what kind of things you would say are important to do when you're young to set you up with a good foundation if you want to be like a founder or go into entrepreneurship?
11:07I probably there was no that's fine. Yeah, I never connected with anybody. I don't think I learned that. I think I learned that way later. For the record, I wasn't like building, which is again, it's fine. But I didn't know for sure. It was just so funny. It was like a pretty ambitious stripper, I guess. There is a lot of people get really excited hearing stories like mine where it's like, oh, just get started with no experience and like no, like no education. Like my story is such an outlier and people were so attracted to it because it inspired a girl with like a login to Shopify or eBay or whatever to start a business, you know, which was not possible before a marketplace.
11:46Like it was just digitally. It was just like not, you couldn't just stand up a business. You had to like go get a physical retail space to sell vintage, which was like, I would never have done that. And so we are in a world where really anybody can start a business. I don't think education is overrated. And I especially think that if you can, when you're young, learn some chops on somebody else's dime, work in a company, even if it's for a bad boss, experience what leadership looks like or shouldn't look like just by exposure that when you go become a leader, when you start a company or you need to manage somebody or there's a certain kind of domain expertise that you want to have cultivated before you move into your career or starting a business.
12:28like you've done that and you've gotten paid to do it rather than putting like all the risk up front and doing it for the first time after you start your business um you know that works differently for different people it ended up working for me like to a point but I think you know the whole like serendipitous founder story of just like you know you know dropped out of school whatever thing is like a little over glamorized yeah it's like I really wish I had that foundation because it would have given me a lot more empathy for the people that I was employing and a lot more chops to be able to kind of run that team when the job became about more than like shipping stuff or things that I had already done myself right do you feel like there's mistakes you made as a boss that you're looking back like wow I wish I had done this differently yeah I really wish I'd coached people more didn't know how I didn't know what that meant I hired people that were you know three times older than me, whatever, twice as old as me.
13:29And I was like, you're going to diagnose the business and do what it needs to happen. And you're going to work with the other people like a grownup and call it like coordinate and it's all going to happen. Right. I just thought that's what like grownups with like, like lengthy careers did. And nobody had to tell me what to do. So I just like didn't understand that even executives had to be held accountable and that they actually want that. I was like, Oh, they're going to be so insulted if I'm telling them what to do. Like Like they've got their like shit together, right? Well, you know, when people even like really, really great talent doesn't fulfill on what it is that they set out to do and you haven't like led them to it or coach them or checked in and talked about milestones and just been like, oh, cool, you're going to go do that.
14:14It doesn't set them up for success. I think it's easy to be like, well, you fucked up. But actually, that's just like people need more than that. I could have given people more chances kind of in the same vein where I'd be like, this is absurd how did this happen if you're I just kind of whacked people and it puts a business at risk when you just like remove someone from the company it's like a game of like Jenga it's like you know sometimes the best thing for the company is to keep the person that's not working out in that role until you find someone to fill that role because you can remove someone from the company and then the people under them are like I got all this responsibility like what the hell and then they're like I want to raise and you're like you're not qualified and you're like now you're going to get a new boss and they're like we don't they don't know what we know it's like but what got us here is not going to get us there
15:15I want to continue to kind of hone in on your journey with Nasty Gal was there a specific milestone that you hit especially when you were initially bootstrapping where you thought oh my god like this is actually working this could actually be the thing that I do full-time as my business the moment where I was like oh wow I can do this full-time was when I launched the website it was when I left ebay and I was doing a full-time where I was like oh shit and why did you leave ebay I had a customer base that was coming to ebay for me selling at a place like etsy or ebay or poshmark or any of these reseller sites is great because people there's a sense of discovery and if somebody's looking for X item, they can find it.
15:52But my customers were coming for like what I was curating. And so I think eBay was good in the beginning to get awareness about the brand and to find customers. But ultimately, I was like, why are people coming here for me? And then I'm giving my business away to like, you know, suggested sellers, suggested other shops, suggested retailers. And I was like, I just got kind of selfish about it. As you should, though. It's your business, right? I was like, I'm doing more for eBay than they're doing for at this point. Also, I was like, I wasn't planning on leaving eBay. I was going to like launch the website and still sell on eBay.
16:23But I was like, I'm going to market the shit out of this website. And so I was leaving feedback for customers that was like, check out Nasty Gal Vintage coming soon. And eBay basically suspended me for doing that at the same time that the website launched. So I didn't really have a chance, a choice to go back. So that was really why I like left, left eBay. I didn't really have a choice but also when I launched the website everything sold out within hours so Who What Wear and Daily Candy were really huge at the time Who What Wear is called Click Media Group now and they own like Birdie and all these other platforms Catherine Power went on to you know found Merit and Aveline Wines with Cameron Diaz but at the time like Cartier would pay them I don't know how much money for a dedicated email okay here's today's trends it was really mostly a newsletter business.
17:12What year is this? 2008. And so she was a customer, like Anne Hathaway was a customer, like on eBay, you know, who later came and shadowed me for the intern, which is, it was kind of like interesting and surreal. Anne Hathaway? Yeah. That's hilarious. Yeah, yeah, yeah. She came to our offices and like followed me around for a day for the role. And Nancy Meyers came to the office. How did all these people find out about you? She found me on eBay. It was just, it was organic. Like people talked about it. People thought it was cool or it stood out on eBay to them or they were looking for something, you know, similar.
17:45But Who What Wear sent out a dedicated email about Nasty Gal's launch to I don't know how many people. It was one of the biggest fashion newsletters out there because the co-founders were customers. And that was just like Kelly Ripa's stylist was calling. She was like, do you have that motorcycle jacket in an extra small? And I'm like, it's one of a kind. didn't know but like what the fuck how did you like get my number you know and it's like Hollywood that's crazy so it was just like sitting in this you know little warehouse up in Benicia and butt fuck Bay Area and um yeah that was when I was new I was new I was that that was when I knew I was onto something so it was really that you were intentionally curating and then these celebrities like organically found you and then it led to more people finding out through referrals or what do you think was kind of that critical unlock that made more people discover the brand?
18:36Yeah, I think like, I mean, when we raised money, it was something like 60 % or some crazy number was organic traffic. We weren't really running any paid media. So at the time it was just, you know, people didn't, MySpace wasn't even around at the time. So people were really just finding us through word of mouth. It just became like a cult, like obsession. Yeah. And eventually maybe social media, but it really was word of mouth, you know, people wearing Nasty Gal, somebody asking, you know, where did you get that? And the name of the company itself, I think, lended itself to a certain amount of virality.
19:13You know, girls would get a package and people would be like, what's that? Or their parents would see something on their credit card and be like, what are you doing? And so I think that really ended up standing out because at the time, I mean, everything was just really generic. It wasn't as hard to stand out. And is there a reason you named it Nasty Gal? How did you land on that? The other name I almost called it was I Heart Vintage. No, no, no. I like Mastigal way better. I mean, so there I worked in a record store in San Francisco for a little while and there was an album I discovered there by a woman named Betty Davis who had been married to Miles Davis for a short period of time.
19:50And she was like reportedly too wild for him, but was this incredible front woman funk singer, super duper stylish. Like if you look at photos of her, she is like so fucking cool. And her lyrics are like, I don't want you back. They're all just like, you know, it's like your mama wants you back. I'm the best thing you've ever had. I don't just like really kind of ballsy lyrics. And the spirit of that was just what I wanted to infuse into Nasty Gal. The brand was very, and I hate the word edgy now, you know, but there was an edge to it that didn't really exist anywhere else. And the name very much inspired that.
20:35Walk us through, you were talking about all these different revenue milestones that you were hitting. And then so when did you make the decision to raise venture capital and do you regret it at all? You know, I owned 100 % of the company when they valued at$350 million. dollars had I sold all of the company when it was worth even if it was worth 200 million dollars to private equity or had like even a hundred million dollars like that would have been a ton of money when I raised money you know I had already built something so I wasn't really pitching I was just like yeah this is what I did you know that was when Jeff Jordan from Andreessen and Jeremy Liu from Lightspeed like everybody flew down to LA to be like who is this freak what is this phenomenon on how did she build this thing?
21:19Where'd this come from? It should be venture backed, but it's not index. A bunch of them leaned in. I found a term sheet from benchmark and I don't even remember getting one. I was digging through my Dropbox recently. Um, and it was like, okay, wait, I can raise a bunch of money. I still own 80 % of the company and I raised 50 million and I owned 80 % of the company. And I was like, I control the board. So what's the downside here? So I sat down with my new investor, which was Index Ventures, and my COO and my CFO at the time. And it was like, okay, let's project next year. Let's just round up by$100 million.
21:57So let's go from like 28 to 128. And then we hired into it and we spent money on paid into it. And then the company became less profitable and you hire a hundred people in a year. It is like, you know, you better have really good chops to do that and have like new teams and new leadership and, you know, first, you know, early employees getting bosses for the first time and no systems and like no processes. And it was just very much kind of like a homegrown business. You know, when you get started, it's like create processes as early as possible so that when it scales, people can take that and run with it.
22:32If you're trying to retrofit them into a business, it's really hard because there's already so much complexity and getting people to like buy into that and do something a new way is a lot more challenging. So that just became this like really loud people being like, I'm doing the same thing that that person's doing. And like, I thought that was my job and all kinds of things that happen when you hire a lot of people at the same time and things that happen just when you have people, period. The expectation was that I build a billion dollar business next. And that was never my aspiration. Like I would, I was fine with the business I had built.
23:11I wasn't like, oh my God, if I don't build a hundred million dollar revenue business, I'm going to be a failure. I was like, dude, this is amazing already. And, you know, I was told I could and I would, and it was basically inevitable. And it's just not as simple as maybe it, it was made out to be. And so by the time you're 32, you guys are doing over like$100 million in revenue. You also have to guide the business through bankruptcy. Was there a point where you're like, okay, this is going the wrong direction or we're being pushed too fast to scale? What did that look like? I mean, you don't go bankrupt overnight.
23:47There were opportunities to raise money at a lower valuation that we had raised$200 million even, which is like not a failure, right? But that would have meant my investors, what they invested in was worth less than what they paid, which they don't want. And so even though I had control of the company, the advice I got was like, don't do that. Some conversations I think that were had when I wasn't in the room, even though I controlled the company where my investor was like, you know, to a potential new investor who would have been like a strategic apparel, like veteran type of like person, company, whatever, was like, if you can't invest at 350 million, don't bother showing up kind of a thing.
24:30And I learned that like later on. And so there was a certain amount of like cock blocking that happened that I don't think I knew about because I would ask that potential investor later on like what happened and they were like this is what happened. Because they didn't want to raise on a down round because their reputation didn't matter. Because they would rather, venture capitalists would rather just show their investors that what they invested in is still doing fine than mark it down and say, oh shit, like the fund that you invested in is worth less or this company is worth less. It's a high risk business, venture capital.
25:06So they expect a number of them to flame out. So I think some venture capitalists would rather like hold their investment at cost than mark it down and give the company an opportunity to like get back to where they were. And then at the end, there was like a series of Hail Marys that were like, this person's ready to buy the company. You know, here are different opportunities. Someone did invest. Ron Johnson, who had been in Apple and was like a retail veteran, came in and invested with his like cronies. and they were like we're gonna turn it around the company had taken on some debt and he's like we're gonna sell it I remember one of his guys came in and I was like what's the chance we're gonna sell the company to these people he was like 100 % and I was like nothing's 100 % like oh god you've been a long longer you've been alive longer than I've had a career yeah and I know that most deals fall apart.
26:00So that was when I was like, oh shit, like what's happening? I had taken myself out of the CEO role two years before the company fell apart. I didn't want that job. I didn't enjoy it. I was in over my head. I was very aware of that. Nobody pushed me out. And I hired a CEO who had been our chief product officer, who was incredible merchant, incredible eye, incredible taste. we were making really beautiful things maybe wasn't the right CEO think you know that's a huge risk to put somebody else in that position would I have pulled it off had I not done that would the fate of the company been different I don't know but I knew that I hit a wall and I just straight up didn't want that job I mean after eight years I was like 32 when I left nasty gal after 10 years I mean 10 years is crazy it's a long time you're like oh this isn't the vision I had for the company.
26:52And now you're forced into what is a grueling job of taking this to, okay, let's make this a billion dollar brand. Yeah. I was like, I didn't know what I was signing up for. I didn't know that that job was going to be as gnarly as it was. And as a founder, by default, you're the CEO. Yeah. And it's like a founder and a CEO aren't necessarily the same thing. And you don't have to be in that position. I think when you have a co-founder, it's amazing. You know, I wish I had a co-founder, especially someone who had more experience than I did. But I was very much a founder, very much a creative, but I wasn't a CEO.
27:27And now, you know, I have a venture fund called Trust Fund. And I invest at the early stage because that's just where I like to play. Yeah. And I get to do it over and over because things I do tend to be successful, which is awesome. But then you inherit this. I inherit the things that I don't like, which is the next phase, which is the growth phase, which is exciting the first time, but not something I want to do again. Of your portfolio, what's an investment you've made that you're really excited about? Yeah, there's two. One's called Agree.com, and I think they're going to replace DocuSign.
27:58It's like you load a PDF in, everything becomes editable, and you can collaborate, and it has version control, so you can see anytime something's edited, whereas right now, if you go into Word, you can't see. And it's also connected to payments, so you can sign a contract, And as part of the flow, your customer, say it's like a SaaS customer or, you know, you're a consultant even, when they sign the contract, basically they have to pay when the contract is the invoice. And you can set up recurring payments. And so instead of signing a contract and then sending them an invoice and then chasing them down for payment, you're able to do that all in the same flow.
28:42And so I invested when these guys just had a deck and they just raised a big seed round. And so that's really exciting. They did that in a year. And then there's a company called Nectar Social. And it's these sisters based in Seattle who worked at Meta, who worked on the Instagram messaging product. And they saw a huge opportunity in selling via DM, not like customer service or, you know, hey, how can we help you? But they found out how to connect Shopify data at the user level on Instagram. And you can look up a customer's entire shopping history and do like, you know, specific targeting to them and sell via DMs.
29:23And they just raised a seed round actually from Google Ventures and True Ventures. And I made those introductions. and that makes me very proud to send a company that I invested in that no one's heard of with a deck to like the big shots who aren't going to invest because like we're friends but are like oh wow you picked a winner as an investor that makes me very happy as it should you're bringing them into the forefront that's amazing but as a venture capitalist I don't operate the same way that that my investors did so I'm like a lot of them say they're founder friendly but I think I actually am.
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30:00I'm just like, you know, raise a lot of money now. Don't optimize for valuation. You know, extend your runway as far as you can because sentiment shifts. Companies go up and down. And just be careful with valuation because the expectations are really high for what you need to do to get to the next round. And I'd rather a company survive than be able to market up and look like I'm successful as an investor.
30:35walk us through kind of your inflection point and transition so nasty gal started to plateau at plateau at around like a hundred million dollars in revenue what ended up happening with the business and then how did you end up moving forward with your career i mean ultimately i got to a point where i was like okay we can't fund the company anymore it started to lose money the responsible thing you do when you can't pay your vendors like really as a fiduciary is to declare chapter 11 kind of that's the best thing to do because otherwise eventually you can't pay people and so I remember I was in Australia actually promoting my second book which was called Nasty Galaxy um Girlboss I'd written a book called Girlboss which spent 18 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list and sold I've read Girlboss I read Girlboss when I was literally in high school.
31:25I love that book. Yeah. I mean, it was 2014. That book came out 11 years ago. It's pretty wild. And so I had gone off as an author and done other things and moved out of the CEO role. But I was on the board and I remember having a board call minutes before I was going to walk on stage in front of a thousand women to promote a book and talk about all my success. And nobody knew how much the company had been struggling. And I remember that call and the The call was the day Trump was elected and Hillary lost. And I mean, it was just the worst time. My husband, I had gotten a divorce that year. It was four months before a Netflix series about my life came out, talking about this like girl who started a company called Nasty Galwin for the first time.
32:09I like stepped off the board. I was like, I don't know how to do this process. You're not going to need me here. And after 10 years, I did. I think it was selfish, but I was like, I just need to preserve myself. I could have been there and been a spiritual leader and talked to the team. But like I wasn't I hadn't been the CEO for a while. And I was like, I'm just going to go kind of into my own mode. And, you know, I'm someone who likes to be occupied. I find new things to be inspired by. In some ways, it was a relief because I was able to move on because I felt so stuck in the company, even though, you know, even when it was doing well and especially when it wasn't doing well.
32:47I was like, I'm, my hands are tied. Like, I don't know what to do here. And so not long, I was like, this Netflix series is coming. I'm an opportunist. So it was like, Girlboss has like so much brand equity. You know, people were talking about that more than they were talking about Nasty Gal. It's not like Girlboss was even a business. It was like a book and people called it like a movement. And so I was like, I'm going to throw a conference. And I got like brand partners. And, you know, so I think four months after Nasty, I left Nasty Gal. I was like, I'm going to do this Girlboss thing. And it was basically a media company.
33:19I had a podcast for five years called Girlboss Radio. I had like 22 million downloads. You know, I think about doing a podcast again. And it's like, it's a lot of work. But I moved on and, you know, we had a newsletter. We had an editorial content. We did events with like 1500 women in LA and New York. We did really big brand partnerships, raised a little bit of money, eventually sold the company to like a media holding company during COVID. and so I did robots for about three years and then I was like I just want to do lightweight things that can scale without a big team and use you know digital products to do that you know and now AI it's like you know it was like I started an online course and you know that was a very easy thing to put together I was like I'm gonna scale my knowledge so I started an online course It's called business class during COVID after I left Nasty Gal.
34:13And, you know, I've had like 3 ,500 students in there. And it's like I've put all of my knowledge into this one thing because I get asked advice all the time and I just can't respond to everybody. But I am like optimizing for, you know, as much impact as possible with the smallest team. This is so interesting for us because we're at the beginning of our journey. Right. And I feel like already some of the things you're talking about hiring people and learning how to coach people are like things. Frankly, we've failed that having to learn today. So the fact that you've had this business and gone through all of these different chapters and frankly found success at each and every one, I think is a huge learning lesson, especially because for us from a young age, wanting to be an entrepreneur when we are at Stanford, I was reading your book.
34:55I was following your journey. So to be able to like talk and go through those different milestones is really interesting for me. And it's like what I enjoy the most. It's like I don't have a warehouse full of clothes. My inventory is my experience. And that's like super high margin. And it's just what I enjoy doing. Like it feels like it was all worth it when I can pass on like anything that or make an introduction that like changes the trajectory of a company. That's what's really gratifying to me now. And it's like such low effort to make such a high impact. Everything that could have happened probably happened.
35:27And to be able to take that and share with a new generation is like super rewarding. What would you say your biggest piece of advice for young entrepreneurs today is who are getting started? Would you open an eBay store? What would you say? I think most of the people listening to your podcast, like 99 % of people are probably not going to raise venture capital, probably shouldn't for the type of business they're starting. Most people who are business owners are like they're entrepreneurs, but they're not like they don't need venture capital. So I think there's a lot of glamour around raising money.
36:01But for most people, you don't need to do it. And you can spend a lot of time thinking about it and talking to people. But to be able to stand up a business today with AI and with the digital tools, whether it's an online course or, you know, you're selling clothes online or you want to get something like manufactured even like there are so many resources for you online where you don't need as much as you think you do. And you can be scrappier than you think you have to be. I'm also curious, like through all of this time, do you feel like there's really consistent bad advice that people give that you would want to dispute or that you tell the people you work with differently?
36:41I just feel like advice is different for everybody, which is why it's so hard to dispense at broadcast level. Like I actually think advice can be dangerous. So listen to advice, but choose what advice to listen to that's right for you. Listening to yourself and trusting your gut and doing what you know is right for your business is more important than getting or taking advice. That is good advice. That's pretty good advice. Yeah, just like advice is overrated. Can be really trite. I think everybody wants a silver bullet. If you fail, at least you can blame yourself. That is true. Yeah, because I really want to dig into also where you are at now because I think that's also super fascinating.
37:21I mean, you built Girlboss. Now you're running your own venture fund. You're also doing these business classes. like you are doing so much. And what I was really interested about was that you, like you were saying, you literally four months ago decided to leave LA and move to London. Why did you decide to do that? Kind of what role did it play in your career? I mean, I'm able to work from anywhere. And I think that applies to a lot of people and what a lot of people want. And for the majority of my career, I was, even though I worked for myself, I work for my team. I was in an office. I had to be physically present and I was in relationship so it wasn't going to be like babe let's move across the world so I found myself like single in this house that was kind of too big for me that I'd never lived in alone and I was like oh shit like I can be wherever I want and I can like lease this house out and make passive income and or like pay for a flat and nodding hill and I can go to Italy in two hours like that's crazy I was in LA for 14 years and I love LA and no part of me was like, I need to get out.
38:19I need to change my life. I'm dissatisfied. If I move, it's going to change something. Like actually it was just like, Oh, because I want to and because I can. Now, when you look at where you're at in your career, what are you most excited about? I love seeing your social media and you saying like, you feel like you're on your 3.0 version and you're doing the things that feel fulfilling. Like walk us through what that means to you. I think I'm just optimizing for impact because like I said, it's so gratifying. And if I can do that through investing or I can do that just through creating content or I can do that through, you know, I have like one consulting client.
38:52Like I'm not really a consultant, but if there's a way that I can pass on my knowledge to other people, that makes me very happy. If I can do it while also having flexibility to be spontaneous, that's also at the top of the list. And the least number of people I need to do it are like, those are kind of, I think the three things. Um, because like to me, the ultimate luxury is spontaneity. Get out when I want to, Like my boyfriend was like, I might be in Turkey for a job. Want to come? And I'm like, I could. You know, that's something you can do over here. I had a friend who was like, I'm doing my 40th in Egypt.
39:25I didn't end up going, but it's like, oh, that's five hours. Like that's crazy. Bucket list items when you live in LA are like weekend trips here. I'm just kind of fully taking advantage of that while, you know, building the fund and investing in amazing entrepreneurs and helping them build their companies and eating good food and riding a line bike. and how did the fun come about why did you decide to start that I'd done a bunch of angel investing so I invested in like liquid death and ate sleep and you know some software companies some consumer companies and it was like okay I can't eternally keep angel investing but I really really enjoy this and went out to people that I know primarily and you know so my investors are like Mark Andreessen and Jeremy Liu and Jeff Jordan and Chris Dixon and Andrew Chen and like half of Andreessen and like Jason Calacanis and David Sachs and like it's kind of an incredible it's like the Midas list of people who showed up and were like hey we support you like we and for them if they lose their money it's like a rounding error but I think they knew that he's like I have access so it's like what do you have what do you what are your advantages I was like I have access I can make an impact both through helping the companies and I understand like their end consumer because I was that when I was building my company and I can amplify their companies to an audience that's really qualified and interested in the kind of things that they're building and then I can like go upstream and make introductions that you know in the first fund I've been able to prove are like not just valuable introductions but like really qualified introductions to the kind of people who in response and these are the best introductions are like oh my god thank you for introducing me it's not like a favor to the founder everybody everybody even on the other side who have made the introduction to is super grateful for it I have like investor thesis fit and you know so there's like you know product market fit there's founder market fit but I think I have like investor thesis fit kind of unlocked with Trust Fund.
41:31And it's also just another fun brand to keep building. Do you feel like you're now doing things differently than your investors? And walk us through what those things are. I think so. I just had a retreat in Mallorca for my founders. And it was literally like, it's a house. It's a residency. Show up, co-work. We'll go eat some dinners. We'll go to the beach. But it wasn't like we're going to have talks. Yeah. And it's going to be super structured and at 8 a.m there's like breakfast that everybody you know because I go to things like that just to network and to hang out everybody has phone calls to make and everybody's busy so I was like just come hang out and that's kind of what everybody wants and we made some content I haven't posted it yet but I think with the trust fund there's an opportunity to just like create experiences for the founders that like bring them together in a way that just feels really organic I don't want my founders to raise it crazy valuations the job of a venture capitalist is, you know, historically to make it look on paper like what they invested in is worth more.
42:34Of course, that's what I want. And I've done that. I want to be able to report that to the people who invested in me, but not at the expense of what can come down the line where a company goes from like zero to, you know,$100 million valuation and, you know, doesn't necessarily have, you know, or has no revenue. I mean, you own 10 % of a billion dollar business, you're fine if it sells, you know, like you're in good shape. So if you end up owning less of the company because you didn't have like the highest valuation for everybody here, it's called dilution. You can like ask ChatGPT about it. But I think it just gives you, it just gives you more optionality and there's more people who would want to invest later on and they're not like, sorry we're not going to pay that because sentiment can shift like maybe there are more competitors or maybe retail's down or you know there can be reasons a year from now or two years from now where people who are really excited about this kind of product like maybe aren't and maybe they will be again in a couple more years but you just have to be able it's more important to survive you know than it is to raise as much money at the highest valuation possible.
43:44I mean Forbes once valued you at$230 million and then seemingly like overnight all of this stuff changed I mean how how does that kind of impact your view on risk and like how you want to move forward in your life there's a retailer of urban apparel who offered over 400 million dollars for the company when I owned 80 percent of it and I literally was going through my dropbox again and I have the red lines where I ask for more money at the advice of my investors because, again,$411 million is not that much of a success when they paid$350 million. They want it to be worth a billion dollars. So I basically said no, but, like, my life would be very different if I actually had, like,$200 plus million in the bank.
44:31Like, I'm good. I'm not retired, but I'm also, like, I made money, like, you know, and I continue to make money, whatever. So again, back to the advice thing, I would say like take the money. You may not get another acquisition opportunity. You know, there may be someone who's like, great, we'll buy you for$100 million. Well, you own half the company. Like go do the next thing. You know, you've got like so many lives in you. You don't have to like build a bazillion dollar business to be successful. You guys are so young. Part of me is just like take the money. There's a famous quote that's like show me the incentives and I'll show you the outcome.
45:07And I think that that's really important to remember is like the incentives aren't always aligned when an investor's goal is to get that markup, is to show their LPs, hey, look, this business scaled so fast when we got into it versus the founder's incentive is how do I keep this business alive? How do we sell it at a good valuation? And so I think that that's really interesting for you because I think your business is a case study of, yeah, the incentives were not aligned for the investors. There's also an apparel business. Venture capital should be reserved for software. I'm sorry. You guys can build one thing and 100 million people use it.
45:41I have to keep a warehouse full of clothes that cost a lot of money. It's not a venture. For the most part, I don't think retail is a venture scalable business, which kind of goes back to if you want to start a business selling clothes, go figure out how to fund it yourself in the beginning if you can. Or take a loan or something, but you don't need investors. For venture, I think it's a little bit different. So you just have an opportunity to build something much bigger, much more quickly. And so their speed is important because there will be people who creep up and see your success and want to do the same thing.
46:18And like how do you set goals and routines for yourself now? I achieve more than I ever thought I could and built something bigger than I ever thought I could. And I kind of had goals, but I kind of just followed my nose to a certain extent. today it's like my goals are really freedom alignment with what I'm really good at and not having a huge team of people that like keeps me in place and makes me like a big manager because I'm really good at being nimble and making like a direct impact I don't know buy a house in London you know yeah like stop renting um figure out how to deal with three poodles who are like a lot of work that I moved across the world and had like help with in LA and boyfriend and housekeeper and stuff like that.
47:08So I think just like, I really like my life, just keep leading the life that I have and keep making an impact and just deal with my shit. I think you had said that your investors had made you invest$2 million of your own personal capital into the business, which is insane. Why did that happen? And why did you agree? Yeah, I mean, it ended up just kicking the can further down the road because the company could have just fallen apart then and I would have saved two million dollars but they were like we already own 20 percent and we don't want to put a dime more in and when you're trying to raise funding which I was you know this was maybe like a year before Nasty Gal ended and it's still going it's like owned by Boohoo now here in London or whatever but he wouldn't put a dime more in and when you have people that want to invest in the company if your prior investor doesn't want to keep investing even if it's just a tiny bit it's a really bad signal and so he was like we own 20 the only way i can convince the partnership to invest anything is we'll double whatever of your money put back and the idea was that it was going to motivate me to like turn things around but i just like didn't know how to do that and i already knew that so it was kind of like a donation in a way to like okay a two million dollar donation no but it was like you know I reinvested but I had the CEO in place and it was the only way I could get like new investors in which we did do a bit about a year before you know I stepped off the board and you know left the company so I really resent it made me really resent yeah the company instead of like motivate me to like double down on it and figure out what to do with it like I had already kind of made clear that like I didn't want that job and I wouldn't have known what to do anyway um so I left it to the more experienced people and you know what what happened happened but um yeah I mean do I regret that I don't know you know yeah sure but whatever like I always make money it's just nice knowing that when you're smart and have experience and have relationships and you know if everything goes to zero you can start over it didn't go to zero for me the you know but it's just like I know that if everything fell apart like I could still rebuild something really significant we and where did love fit into all of this yeah I mean I have a boyfriend he's awesome so we went to like we I had never met him before.
49:46We met in like a piazza in Venice for the first time, like four days after I turned 40 a year ago and spent three weeks together. And I came and stayed with him in London for a week. And I was like, oh my God, I love this city. And that's when I really fell in love with London. We've been together for like five months or something. He's English, but he speaks fluent Italian, which is very cool. So I'm like, can we just like move to Italy at some point? Yeah, you honestly should, why not? Sort of in here. Right? Yeah, just like have a pool again. And so, yeah, that's been like really fun and great.
50:20He's back in Sicily right now, actually. Yeah, because that's something I feel like our audience has been so interested in is kind of advice around balancing career and relationships, both romantic but also friendships. I mean, I think in the end you're just going to disappoint people. Like you're going to be if you're successful, you're just going to be busy where at a certain point you're not going to be able to like catch up with somebody. even like you might not have time for your best friends sometimes and the right people are going to stick around and understand that and the ones that don't are going to like resent you and there's a graceful way of being like I can't right now or I'm super heads down with something but um you know it's kind of an easy way like should people shouldn't take things personally when they're excited for your success those people will be there when you you know come up for air after building a startup and raising money and running across the world and launching a podcast and killing it.
51:13Sophia, I can't thank you enough for coming on The Burnouts today. We've learned so much about incentive structures, how to build a business, what it looks like to scale, how to move on to the next chapter. And it was incredible to have you on. Thank you again. Awesome to meet you guys. Congrats on everything.
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Sophia Amoruso built a $350M fashion empire from her bedroom—and lost it all before rebuilding her life from the ground up.
In this episode of The Burnouts, the original “Girlboss” and founder of Nasty Gal joins Phoebe Gates and Sophia Kianni for her most unfiltered conversation yet. From selling thrifted clothes on eBay to becoming a CEO on magazine covers, Sophia reveals how she built a cult brand that defined a generation—and what really happened when everything came crashing down.
She opens up about walking away from a company she founded, navigating bankruptcy, and learning to lead with empathy instead of ego. Sophia also shares the untold lessons behind Girlboss, why she believes failure is her greatest teacher, and how she’s redefining success through her new venture fund, Trust Fund.
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